Love and sorrow

When I took my two daughters out, someone always said to me: your daughters look more beautiful than each other. How blessed you are! Hearing these, I often feel very proud. My two daughters are my sweet cotton-padded jacket and two blooming flowers. I like them very much, and I love them deeply. I don’t know how others educate their own treasures. Over the years, I seem to have only one idea in my heart, that is, while taking good care of their food and drink, I hope they can live a happier life and have a happy childhood. Therefore, I have never taught them with fierce words, nor have everything required and restricted them, as long as it is not too much, I wouldn’t give them cold faces or criticism. I let their nature go and let them develop freely. For example, my daughter loves reading, and I strongly support her. As long as she likes it, I will buy it for her. She often sat there for an hour or two to read, one by one local, like Shen Shixi’s animal novels; Yang Hongying’s laughing cat series, Ma Xiaotiao series; Wu Meizhen and Yu Yujun’s books, she also likes it. There are also some youth emotion novels, such as those of Ming Xiaoxi and Xia Qixi. When I went to buy it, the person selling books asked me: your daughter is so young, how dare you let her read such a book? It’s all romantic! Many parents bring their children to buy books, which will prevent their children from buying such books. I smiled and said that children always grow up. They have their emotional world. As long as they are excellent books, even if they describe emotions, it’s OK for children to read them, they will feel the beauty of the world. I don’t restrict my daughter from reading books, nor does I restrict her from watching TV plays she likes, such as “brown candy macchiato”, “Love Apartment”, “Huanzhu Princess”, “Sea sweetheart” and so on, My daughter often couldn’t help laughing because of the plots in the story. Besides, my daughter likes skating, cycling and playing with her favorite children. I will let her do these sports she likes outdoors. My daughter’s childhood was not lonely. She often mentioned to me that when she was young, she led a group of companions who were younger than her in the big playground of our school, catching locusts, flying kites and running on the playground, my daughter said that it was a fairyland on earth. She said that when she mentioned that period of life to her classmates, they were extremely envious! A few days ago, I told my daughter to cherish it. Your childhood is going to pass! Because you are already ten years old and a teenager! My daughter said, mom, my childhood was very happy, thank you. However, I also have my own confusion and worry, that is, if I do this, will it bring bad influence on the future of my children? I have read a sentence that says like this: to give children a happy childhood is equal to giving them an unemployed middle age and a miserable old age. In the current education system and the environment full of competition, did I indulge my children too much? Apart from art, I didn’t enroll her in all kinds of tutorial classes, nor did I force her to do exercises that would never be finished, Compared with her peers, she lives a relaxed, free, happy and unrestrained life. However, I think of Xia Wen, the nine-year-old girl, because she did not achieve the grades stipulated by her parents (in fact, she scored more than 90 points, which is already very good in my opinion), while being killed alive by an angry mother; I think of the child of migrant workers who is only four or five years old, who was killed by his parents because he was unwilling to read, while his parents were only primary school cultural parents, I just had too high expectations for him, and wanted him to realize the dream of reading that they had never finished. I thought of Xuli, because he couldn’t bear the learning pressure brought by his parents, he killed his mother by himself. Whether Xia Wen, little boy or Xu Li, their parents must love them very much, but if they love them too much, it will become hurt. They just love blindly, but they don’t worry about whether the child can bear such great pressure at a young age, and don’t consider that they are just a child, how can they impose the will of adults on children. How can they feel the happiness of life without childhood! Some time ago, the wolf dad was fired, and then an eagle dad appeared. I don’t deny that they love their children, but their rigid way of education makes their children suffer more harm than other peers. Maybe they are very successful, but the injuries they suffered in their childhood will certainly be reflected in another form in their growing years and processes. This is also the worry of some education experts. I love children and worry about their future. But comparatively speaking, I hope my children can live healthily, happily and happily. But not only, under the baton of exam-oriented education, I became a bookworm with glasses and fragile spirit and body like bean sprouts. The Dr. returnees killed by his son because of the pressure of life reminded us. If educating children, although they are rich, they can’t bear any pressure of life, he might as well be a migrant worker. Although they are poor, they can live in a poor life, find the simplest happiness in their lives.

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