And daughter chat

My daughter and I are very close. When we walk together, we often hold hands or I hug her shoulder. I didn’t act as a parent, and my daughter was happy to chat with me. Once, my daughter went to learn art. It was still early. What should I do? I said, let’s have a chat. My daughter started to talk to me about the students in their class. My daughter said that many students in his class were in love, and some of them had changed several. I said, what do you think of this problem? I think they are just playing, not falling in love at all. If a boy likes you, what will you do? I asked her again. Mom, don’t worry, I won’t talk about it. My daughter’s attitude is very resolute. However, Mom, I have an idea to tell you. What idea? I asked her. Mom, when I think of being with a strange man in the future and lying on a bed, I feel goose bumps all over my body. Hearing my daughter finished, I smiled. I told her that you are still young now, and there is no need to know much now. But what mom wants to tell you is: one day you will grow up. When you grow up, go to college and take part in work, you have to face the problems of marriage and having children. Love is very beautiful and also a normal human emotion. We should not reject it. However, you are too young to talk about love earlier. You can like and appreciate others, and others can also like and appreciate you. However, this kind of love and appreciation should be pure without any utilitarian purpose. For you, it should be a good feeling. Mom never opposes you to associate with the opposite sex, but you should be measured and measured. Girls still need to be reserved by girls and not indulge themselves too much. Girls should learn self-esteem and self-love, and girls should learn to cultivate themselves and arm their brains with books and knowledge. Girls need to know some knowledge about dressing up and make themselves more beautiful, but the real beauty still lies in the heart. We can only call a beautiful but superficial girl as a vase. My daughter listened to me and nodded. Said, mom, I have another idea, that is, one day I went to college, I hope I will become ugly and have no temperament. Why? I asked her again. I just read an article. A girl named Zhou Yan was pursued by a boy. He didn’t agree and burned her. How terrible! I don’t want someone to pursue me in college. Oh, I see. My daughter was influenced by the newspaper news. I told her that although such a thing would happen in life, it was only a special case and ordinary people would not do it. When you grow up, you can handle a lot of things by yourself. Besides, there is also the strong backing of mom! Now you just study hard and don’t think too much. When you reach the age of love, you will find that love life is very beautiful. At that time, mom will help you, support you and guide you. Time arrived. My chat with my daughter ended. I really hope that my daughter can often talk to me about her heart and her views and feelings about life like today. I think, on her way forward, it will not lose confidence and hope in life because of setbacks or being too lonely.

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