Inner limit

For countless days, I have been asking myself, how much can our hearts bear? Sadness, pain, happiness and the unknown secret. Is it like a spring, which can be freely retractable, with maximum tolerance, understanding, and the most urgent expansion and explosion? Within the scope of elasticity, everything is significantly so insignificant, people can live in peace without any damage. What we expect is to make its limit bigger and bigger. If there is such a direction in the heart, people will face it, becoming better and bigger. It has always been believed that those ignorant people and blind behaviors are just because there is no clear positioning in their thoughts. I am a materialist, but in some specific field, I totally believe that consciousness can determine material, at least it can dominate behavior. Count carefully, I have been groping in business for 8 years. Say it’s not long, say it’s not short. Say no battle-hardened, also hard fledgling. Bitter, tired, crying, laughing, excited, helpless. To ask what the harvest is, I think there is nothing left except a seemingly tired heart. If you want to talk about money, you have made some money and lost some. When it comes to experience, I have some, but also lack some. The world is unpredictable, vast and smoky, who can guarantee, you can once and for all. What’s more, 360 lines are like mountains. Every time you enter a new field, everything has to start from the beginning. In others’ eyes, you are always a young girl who is ignorant of the world. It is not enough to mention both seniority and age. I have never experienced vicissitudes, life and death, and complicated interpersonal relationships. How much do people need to experience before they can mature? In other words, after all these experiences, will people become capable and mature? I don’t know. I always believe that no matter how much experience you have experienced, it depends on how much you feel and understand. In other words, some people still feel so messy and naive after a lifetime of experience. Or being polished by the complicated society, it’s just like it. I always believe that the broken mirror can still present a perfect image, and the refined gold still has a real self. This is the essential difference, the inner persistence, and there is no need for any environment to prove it. There is a new clerk in the store, and the sister who is about to leave has been asking me, OK? Line? In her opinion, this girl is not enthusiastic and friendly enough. She didn’t want to bring me any loss and inconvenience because of her leaving, so she tried her best to find a suitable successor. Once upon a time, I thought whether there was a business that could be handled by one person in the world. There should be free time, personal space and room for a moment’s thinking. If we have three heads and six walls, if we have the technique of separation, whether everything can be solved easily. The mood of every day is always controlled by some unrelated people. This child is ill, that husband is ill, this sister is married, that Uncle is gone, and this is tired, the man who was tired of days and days also looked down upon the gathering and scattering between people like water, and his heart was calm and calm a lot. Why should we put the supporting point on any foreign object? If we don’t expect it, there will be no so-called disappointment. Oneself is the strongest support of oneself. I remember that when I was working on the internet, my husband and I were in a black and white round. We had to stand up even when we were tired, and we had to stick to the bitterness. Every day, we always hinted to ourselves that everything would pass. When making a restaurant, I went there by myself without washing the bowl, changed it by myself without changing the knife, and served by myself without a chef. If you choose, you have to face it. Someone once said that people, like atoms in the energy space, are originally unrelated hard collisions. In the face of such a sudden impact, facing this mission of unknown direction, what is worn is always a soft heart and tenacious will. Who knows how large and flexible your heart is? There is often a customer in the store who is not good-looking, not well-dressed, trembling fingers, unconscious, and often drunk. However, such a person can still find a job of washing bowls in the restaurant next door. It is conceivable how helpless he will be as a boss. For a long time, I dare not judge a person easily. I always feel that people are changeable and things are changeable. Speaking of the horsepower of Lu Yao, I can see people’s hearts over time. What we can do is to cater to, tolerate and understand silently. Use your changeable edges and corners to fit different passers-. I gradually get used to seeing more and talking less. Listen more and talk less. Accept more and ask less. Think more and act less. Understand everyone with a pair of eyes of discovery, treat everyone with an exquisite heart. In the end, you will find that no one is perfect and things are not perfect. Everyone has his own shining side, and he can’t apply all the people in the Universal mode. There are a few words like this: how do you want others to treat you? How do you treat others. Do unto do to you. Put yourself in others’ shoes. Can it also be called a kind of calmness and maturity in the world to fully understand these and take actions?

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