There is “Buddha” at home”

Seeing this topic, you will surely think that I am a Buddhist, but in fact it is not, I am a genuine atheist. Then, why should we talk about this topic? This should start from one thing my father often taught me: my father-in-law died of cerebral hemorrhage half a year ago, although his life was not in danger after rescue and treatment, but he could never stand up. His body was paralyzed and he was sometimes out of his mind. After all, the old man was already 80 or 70 years old. What followed was to arrange people to care for the elderly. Several children had jobs or all kinds of reasons for not getting born. Finally, under my initiative, it was well arranged. After that, every time I came back home, my father asked me about my father-in-law’s illness, and repeatedly told me to take good care of the elderly, never abandon or ignore them, and told me, don’t compare with others, do your filial piety, saying: there are long-lived old people in your family, that is, Buddha, who will bless children, and unfilial children will also be punished. In fact, what I did was done without my father’s instruction, which made my mother-in-law, wife and family very satisfied. Nevertheless, I also obey my father’s order and always alert myself. As for the theory of Buddha, whether it is believed or not, in a word, Buddha is good and bless all the people, which is denied by no one. As for my father’s statement, later I thought over and over again, feeling that my father’s words contained deep truths and the fatalism theory that science could never explain. Buddha is worshiped by others, and parents in the family should be filial to their children. People often say that having parents, especially those who are old, is a blessing to be children. From the perspective of genetics, parents will live longer and older, and children will also live longer, because there are genetic genes. Imagine, who doesn’t want to live a long life and live a happy life for a few more years? From this point of view, having a long-lived parent is indeed a blessing for children. In terms of family affection, it is also a blessing for children to have healthy parents at home. Isn’t it one of the happiest things in the world when we take our lover and children back to our parents’ home and get together and share the happiness of family? How good the song “often go home to see” is! My parents are also over 80 years old. In recent years, whenever I come home and enter the door, my mother will say: my eldest son is coming! That kind of longing for children and love for children are beyond words. Whenever I hear these words, my heart is warm and sour. It was my 80-year-old mother who still called me like this, which made me feel warm, as if I had returned to my childhood and nestled in my mother’s arms; what was sour was that from the call of my mother, I realized the loneliness of the old man, and how much I hoped that my children could often wear them under my knees! You know, in the past, my parents never used such a language to call me, because people are eager to be old, and people will have this time, A kind of sadness can’t help rushing into my heart. At the same time, I also feel some guilt in my heart: why can’t I often go home to see my parents? What makes me feel blessed for my parents and children is that whenever I come back home, especially when I am in poor health, my mother immediately sends me to the Kang, saying that the Kang is warm, I was afraid that I would lie down in a panic, so I put a mattress on my bed. Then my mother was busy in the underground. She found me some snacks and asked me if I could drink water. That kind of love for my children could not be expressed in words. What makes me most happy is that when I am old, I can still eat the food cooked for me by my 80-year-old mother, my heart is full of admiration and gratitude for my mother. The long-lived parents at home are indeed Buddhas. They are protecting their children with selfless love, and making their children safe and happy is their greatest wish in their life. There is a phenomenon that makes me realize a truth later, that is, when the current people are with their children, parents first ask whether their parents are still alive, if there is no single parent or both parents, you have to ask why there is no one. I think, this is one of the reasons why parents think about their children in the future because their parents will pass on to their children because they live longer. This may be one of the reasons why parents taboo whether their parents are alive or not when their children engage in sex? Many facts have proved this point by saying that filial piety and unfilial piety will have the fate of retribution. Those children who are good at showing filial piety to their parents also get generous rewards in their own lives, especially in their old age, most of them enjoy the blessings of their old age. On the contrary, those children who are not filial to their parents or even abandon them have no good retribution in their own lives. Maybe this is what my father said that the old man is the Buddha in the family! Think about how many people in the real society climb mountains and wades to seek Immortals and worship Buddha in order to pray for blessings, but they are not filial to their parents when they return home. Can Buddha bless such people? Children are always the children in their parents’ hearts, but some children can’t do it. Parents are always their own parents. Recently, I read the news. In the Shanghai World Expo Park, the reporter interviewed an elderly woman who pushed her old mother to watch the Expo in a wheelchair, when asked whether the female tourist pushed her mother to watch the Expo, the female tourist replied, “it’s not hard. Didn’t mother do the same to us when she was young? How good it was, I was so moved that my tears almost fell down. Yes, Crows all know how to feed back, let alone human beings? People who are sons of man must follow the example of filial piety and sages from ancient times to present, and treat their parents well, especially the old ones. This is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. The parents who live a long life at home, it is the Buddha in our family. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. 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