Superficial said education

What parents need to know most is how to educate their children? When children come to this world, only their parents are their first teachers. However, to educate children well, the most important thing is to deal with the parent-child relationship well. Some people say that if parents establish absolute responsibility in their children’s hearts, children believe that parents love themselves unconditionally and that all parents’ criticism and praise are for their own good, if children fully believe this in their subconsciousness, then this relationship is benign, and it is a stable relationship of mutual care, mutual support and mutual understanding. Then the next education problem is simple, which is the so-called accompanying children to grow up. Who doesn’t love his children? What exactly is love? At present, it can be said that more than 90% of parents regard spoiling as love, fearing that their children will suffer and be bullied, and blindly giving them good food, good clothes and good drinks. In fact, this is just a way of love; There are additional conditions, such as entering the top three and five places with a high score. I can’t remember who said this. True love is the feeling that one life likes another life. It is an equal relationship and unconditional. It is a kind of overall acceptance, which is to be received by the other party. This sentence is right, it should be like this. All parents want their children to become successful, only learning scores in their eyes; Everything in life is done for them. Look, how many children can’t wash clothes and fold quilts when they go to college now? Can’t self-care. Even some children can’t leave their mother for a while, and they have to sleep in a bed at night. There are many reasons and reasons. Why are you afraid of sleeping alone? What do you miss your mother too much? What is not used to sleeping? See if these reasons are astonishing. What’s more exasperating is the children raised by themselves through hard work; Those who don’t understand respect their parents, and they keep their mouths open and talk with dirty words. Think about it, which parent has such a child, who is not angry with seven meat and eight elements: How did you raise such a white-eyed wolf! Who do you blame for this? Isn’t it the failure of one’s own education? Learning is certainly important, but what I want to say is that moral education is the most important. We should tell them how to be a man from childhood! Then how to live? Finally, how to learn skills. Friends, am I right? I remember a famous writer in the former Soviet Union said like this, the so-called love for children, even the old hen can do it. Yes, the problem is that how to behave is the most important thing. You say that you love children and try your best to lay rich material for them; Don’t let them suffer a little pain and suffer a little sin. Is This Love? No! You’re wrong. My point of view is: no matter what your condition is? All children should be allowed to bear hardships and suffer, exercise their survival ability in life, and make sure they know that everything must depend on their own efforts; Everything is not caused by strong winds, it requires hard work. Otherwise, how could they know how to fight, how to deal with people, how to respect the strong and treat the weak in this noisy world? Do you know that the flowers grown in the greenhouse can never withstand the raging of the storm outside. One day, I couldn’t remember which day it was; I was tired of writing and went downstairs to take a walk in the park, watching people drawing top in a wide square. Looking into the alley, I suddenly felt someone patted me on the shoulder. Looking back, I saw several neighbors bought vegetables. They pulled me aside, arguing and asking me to judge their son. It turned out that the children of their two families upstairs and downstairs were playing roller skating shoes in the competition. This said my son won; That said my son was the best. Only the neighbor who was opposite to me smiled and didn’t say anything, I was about to speak; Suddenly, a little boy’s shadow ran over, shouting mother and taking over the vegetables wrapped in the neighbor’s hands; I nodded straight in favor. At this time, the two people upstairs and downstairs still pulled my arms one by one, asking repeatedly: Come on, who son is the best and the best? I opened my arms and made a movement, with a full face of helplessness: I only saw the best son! Smart, you know what it means! Although it is a glimpse of dragonfly water, I believe it will enlighten you; I only hope that all our children are an upright person! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Love of success

In the evening, my husband couldn’t eat at home because he went to the mine for inspection, and only our son and us were left at home. Taking my son back, cooking, eating, washing, checking his homework and so on were all carried out in such an orderly manner. We felt lonely and calm in our hearts. Maybe we have been used to this kind of life. I kept busy, my son was sitting on the sofa watching TV, feeling a little lonely in the room. Mom, when will my dad come back? Why hasn’t he come back yet? My son asked me from time to time when watching TV. Dad went to the mine, and it took a long time. I told my son. My son stopped talking and continued to watch his TV. After I packed everything up, I told my son to go to bed. When I just got to bed, he took a book, and I took a book. Only the sound of turning books and the ticking of clocks were heard in the room. Time slipped over while we were turning over books. Looking at the time, I said: baby, go to sleep. We have to get up early to go to school tomorrow! My son was very obedient. He closed the book and lay on the bed against me. Mom, why hasn’t Dad come back? He can’t drink bars? He won’t be unable to find a home after drinking too much, will he? Son said. I smiled and said to my son: Silly boy, how could dad drink? He was working, and it would take a long time to go to the mine. Dad had to take a bath after he went up the well, and also had to make work records, besides, I don’t know which mine to go to today. Maybe it’s too far! My son seemed to know something, though he still didn’t know what the mine looked like to him. I said: go to bed early. Dad will come back when you fall asleep. I picked up the phone and checked the time at 10: 30. My son continued: Mom, does dad really know how to drink bars? When he comes back after drinking too much, you should quarrel again. I am most afraid of your quarrel. At this moment, my heart thumped, I couldn’t tell what I felt in my heart, and I was no longer anxious for my son’s delay in sleeping. My son’s words seemed to open the gate of five flavors in my heart, but more is a kind of sour pain. The Silent Night made my heart more lonely, and its silent arrival brought me more guilt for my son. I didn’t expect that, the invisible shadow brought to my son by letting my own mouth and mind vent is constantly hurting the child’s young heart. I stroked my son’s head and said, “go to sleep, my son. I’m not afraid. My parents won’t quarrel, and I won’t quarrel any more. My son huddled up, stroked my arm with his chubby little hand, put his face on my chest, and fell asleep with his eyes closed. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Promise Me a Season of Lotus dream

Those fragmentary days of exile were finally a season of Lotus dreams that kept my youth. A flawless smile, a handful of bitter Lotus hearts. I like to stay in front of the pond in the backyard. It is still the lotus dance pond, and the reflection is overflowing in the water, which is the most blurred confusion in my life. With the breeze of the cloud flute, it gradually dyed the East fence. Some bitterness, which was too late to say, was cast into the lotus dream in a sparse way by the rain. The dark fragrance and clear sound of The Green Years and the curtain rolling eyebrows gradually became an indelible mark in my heart. Those astringent dreams need to be licked, and you can understand them; Those dreams need to be acted, and you can walk out of the difficult barriers, and realize the beautiful and elegant dreams of life …… one person, half a city, wandering aimlessly. The City Without You is not perfect, just like the trace of flying birds across the sky, which is also the loneliness that the sky cannot retain. Time flies, changing the original appearance of you and me, trying to perfunctory each other and then escape from the soul. However, when the midnight dream comes back, there is still a trace of inexplicable melancholy in my heart. How I wanted to drown the pain, but how could I know that it had learned to swim. At first sight, you said you would wait for me as if you were caring for a flower. You will never know how pure the wind-up afternoon sunshine was on your sincere face. At that time, I easily fell into the trap you had already designed, and turned back like a moth to a fire. However, what I never thought of was that this picture became the only good medicine I could recall to comfort when I licked the wound alone in the future. Even though love is rampant, I am willing to let it annihilate all the warmth. Some people say that if you feel cold, go to the south. However, not all the south is called warmth. The longer the time goes, the weaker the days go. I never deliberately stopped to enjoy the scenery along the road. Life is like a kite with a broken line. It is not restrained and restrained by anyone. It is just a gust of wind that can easily take it away. The world of mortals is like a dream, where to go, we are just a speck of dust in the vast sea of changes, all the way through mountains and rivers, in order to find the light peace of one side of the city. Then, with the idle clouds, wait for the flowers to bloom. The tedious and wandering world left a piece of pure land in my heart, planted a grain of Tianshan snow lotus, and cultivated it secretly, only waiting for the Holy Flower of the soul. This life is not for luxury and noise, but just for lonely Bloom, silently waiting for a pure beauty. Like (prose editor: dancing alone with rain) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…