As the saying goes, the village where the father and mother are fed, it is better to have their own

In the world of life, parents are naturally the closest relatives. From childhood to adulthood, we lived and ate with our parents. Especially when we were young, we had our own parents to work on food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is undoubtedly our own to spend their money and eat their meals. It is a matter of course. It seems that we don’t need to think about it by ourselves. Of course, there is a saying spread among the population of the small village: If you have a father or a mother, you might as well have your own. It seems to make people feel that the relationship between children and parents is not necessarily the most reliable, especially in the aspect of economy, sometimes it is incompatible to draw a clear line. In fact, no matter how well their parents protect their children, no matter how rich their parents are, according to the logic of small villagers, it is to educate people not to rely on the trees to enjoy the cool, people should have the spirit of self-improvement and self-reliance. They should create wealth and their own life by their own hands and diligence. Only the wealth and life created by themselves can have a solid foundation, only in this way can we live a steady life. Under the wings of your parents, you forget to fly. One day you will lose your ability to fly. The wealth of parents is created by themselves, which is far less than that created by yourself. Only the wealth created by yourself can be more valuable and enrich and rich. What’s more, between parents and children, there will be endless entanglement due to economic problems, and even make them restless. Therefore, if you want to be independent, you must regard what your parents create as others’, which is not your own. Only with your own heart can you stand up and be upright. In our village, there was a family like this: men were working outside while women were farming with children at home. At that time, the family who were working outside was naturally the first family in the village, life is far ahead of others. Because others have ration, so does his family; His family has money, but others don’t. Every time when sending a money order on time on a monthly basis, the eyes of others can almost get angry from the money order. Anyway, during a long period of time, their life was full of flavor. Later, when my son got married as an adult, I retired and went back home to work. The villagers began to work. The original pattern naturally changed quietly. The conditions of many families gradually improved, and the smiling faces became more and more interesting. On the contrary, the civil war of this family was constantly upgraded. My son and daughter-in-law always thought that I was pinching the money and only took out a part of the expenditure, and the rest seemed to be saved, so they complained to scold others and even tore their faces, the old woman was also suspicious of the old man. She chose her son and daughter-in-law when standing in the team, The old man’s grievance and bitterness could only be poured out to the villagers. Finally, after a super civil war, my son took his wife to roll up the blanket and join the team of going out to work. Unexpectedly, with the bitterness of the young couple, a few years later, his family’s motorcycles, tricycles, color TV sets, refrigerator, washing machine, phone no one should jie quan, also Reversal of dilapidated adobe houses, built a brick top of tile-roofed house, least spent 100 thousands or 200 thousands, of course this 100 thousands or 200 thousands certainly not his father saved, for those limited pensions, the daily expenses of the whole family had already been reimbursed, but it was the inevitable result of the son’s fight for a sigh of relief. When he ran to modernization, his life naturally became normal again, having tasted the pride and satisfaction of spending the money I earned, I must feel confident when walking in front of others, which is the result of my own efforts. Imagine, if my son didn’t get rid of his dependence on Lao Tzu in time and didn’t have the courage and courage to fight for a breath, could he have the modern life created by himself today? 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