In life, people often complain about the hardship of life, the difficulty of life and the unfairness of fate. The income is meager, but the price is constantly rising. I have paid a lot, but I can’t get what I deserve. What I thought should belong to myself ended up in other homes. How can such a variety of things not make people feel angry? After all, there are a few people in the world of mortals who can be extraordinary and refined. It is inevitable to complain and complain. Who is not full of confusion about life and anxiety about the future when he is suffering and helpless? Everyone can understand this. But when I think about it carefully, which one in the world can go smoothly and achieve what he wants in his whole life? As the saying goes: nine out of ten unsatisfactory things in life. Dissatisfaction is an element that cannot be eliminated in life, but its root is the desire that is never satisfied in the heart. Buddhism says: life is suffering, and the root of suffering lies in various desires. There are eight hardships in life, including no need to ask for, no need to let go. In life, there are too many things to pursue and want. Love, career, family, money, status, honor, when you can’t get it, you should think about it day and night, dream for it, and the taste of each person should be bitter words. When I got and had it, I wanted to hold it tightly and was reluctant to put it down any more. When I had to put it down due to various reasons, a new pain came into being. In this way, if you want to avoid pain, just let all living beings in the world escape into Buddhism and practice to the realm of no desire and no need. It doesn’t mean that. On the contrary, only when there is pursuit in life can there be hope, and only when there is goal can there be motivation. Just because of the dissatisfaction and constant pursuit of human beings, the society keeps moving forward and people’s lives are greatly improved. But pay attention to the degree of everything, and there are too many things pursued in life. If there is one thing that can not be obtained, the heart will not be satisfied. If there are too many things that can’t be put down, life will become heavy after a long time. The House needs to be cleaned frequently and some uncommonly used things should be cleaned to keep it clean and spacious. The computers we use every day need to check and kill viruses regularly, clean up garbage and plug-ins, only by emptying the recycle bin can it run normally and quickly. Life is also like this. Only by constantly putting down and abandoning something timely can we become relaxed and happy. Especially for those things that you don’t want to give up but have to let go, it is better to let go openly and smartly than to defend hard. Sometimes, for some things, it is better not to ask for, unable to grasp, it is better to take the initiative to put down. Putting down is a kind of wisdom, not incompetence, nor failure. Let go or not, sometimes even a life-or-death choice. I remember when I was young, I heard a story from my grandmother: long ago, in a village, there lived a rich rich rich man and a group of poor people. One summer, the village was surrounded by floods with heavy rains and floods. People fled town; And. The old rich man was no exception. He packed up all the valuable things in his family, carried a few big burdens and ran away. When there was no way to escape, he climbed to a tree nearby. A poor man who worked for an old rich man had nothing valuable in his family, so he climbed onto a big tree with a few steamed buns. The heavy rain kept falling, and the water rose higher and higher. Two days later, the old rich man was hungry, thirsty and tired. The poor on another tree saw him pitiful, threw him a nest and persuaded him to throw away the burden, but the old rich man was reluctant. Another few days passed, and the poor saved their lives by several nests. When the weather was clear and the flood receded, the old rich man was so tired that he fell into the flood in a rainy night. The drop-down in this story is just tangible drop-down, and its meaning is not only relaxed and happy! Those invisible drop-down may bring more and greater influence to people. The so-called: put down one thought, and feel at ease. Putting down not only means losing. While putting down, you may get a lot, such as freedom, calm, and more precious is the complete liberation of the soul. Life is short, and you should cherish it yourself. Let’s abandon those tangible and intangible obstacles and let everything be random, casual and casual. Only when you travel lightly can you walk more calmly. 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