Thank you for the one who hurt you

Thank you for the one who hurt you

Some people are not worthy of your resentment; Some people are not worthy of your care; Some people you can’t forget even if you want to forget, while some people, you want to remember, but you can’t remember his appearance any more. But there are some people, you must sincerely thank them, because they have made you grow up. Inscription standing in front of the window, I am used to feeling the companionship of the night silently in the empty night. There are love songs on the radio, which are either sad, sad, brisk, excited and melodious, but they can only gently touch the piano string in the bottom of my heart. The pulse is beating and flowing with the notes. A faint feeling is rippling in my heart. The once stirring spirit and the once deep-rooted memory seem to have drifted to the place called memory with the wisps of breeze. When the wind blows, the whirling curtains inadvertently let the Moonlight pour out, sprinkling the thoughts all over the floor. In the dark, there is a clear and quiet light. Looking out of the window, the sparse stars flashed slowly, making the starry sky seem so calm. The past is like running water flowing through the atrium, shaking off the slight concern, deeply grateful, shining on the cold ground like moonlight. Looking back on the past, how did you get to today and how did you get to today? It seems like a lifetime. People came to this world naked from birth, just like a piece of white paper, a basin of clean water, pure white, clean, without any pollution. However, after years of baptism, no matter how white the paper is, it will be stained, and no matter how clear the water is, it will be mixed with dust. Therefore, human life is gradually dyed with different colors by this world. Every graffiti and every bit is an experience and knowledge. The turbulence of life makes us learn from childhood to fall down and then get up. In the process, we may have been tossed and honed by people, things and things around us, leading to scars and even remoulding. But it finally made me who I am today. Many times, we are experiencing a shocking event, no matter in love, in the workplace, or in life, we cannot face problems in frustration. Under the circumstance of hopeless, self-destruction, I even thought about leaving this colorful world. However, in the years when we are living like a year, our hearts are bearing the experience of life, gradually becoming hard, and at the same time accumulating our experience. As long as you can break through that thick mist, you will find that many mountain roads are actually made by people in panic. Tonight, when the past haunts my mind again, there is still a vague gratitude wriggling in my heart. I once regarded all the sweet words as silent promises to each other, and I regarded the passion for a moment as permanent permission, but I didn’t think that the love had passed away, the sweet words of the past will become annoying nagging, and the sweet words of the past will become disturbing words. Once upon a time, once I thought of the past few words, it would hurt my heart like a fine needle. Therefore, the loss and malaise are just for the deep feeling that I should not have. Every time I think of those stinging words and ruthless behaviors, it always makes my heart shed unbearable blood indifferently. The mottled Palm clenched its fist. I never thought how to hold it tightly, but I still couldn’t keep the passing of time. I remember that when I was young, I often urged myself to move forward with a belief. Every time I encounter difficulties, I will remind myself that life is not a smooth road, and every obstacle is a kind of experience. However, when I encounter real difficulties, I always let sadness confuse my heart and can’t see anything clearly. The crying eyes indeed see the world more clearly. Those ferocious faces and false masks gradually become clearer in life. Yes, life experience can make us grow, and the people who hurt us are more like a flat grinding stone, which ponders us into a tool, just like a sharp blade. If properly used, it can be used for defense, but it does not hurt people. I want to thank those who once made me heartbroken. It was she who abandoned me in the deserted ruins, she robbed the sun in my heart, made me struggle, and made me grope for the dark days. But I should thank her, because during my exploration, I may have gained more life experience, more knowledge and a pair of clear eyes, we can see many helplessness, ruthlessness and cruelty in the world. When I finally walked out of the ruins, I found that I unexpectedly unwittingly embarked on another more gorgeous and unforgettable journey. In the workplace, the bullets and the bloody storm. Occasionally it seemed to be calm, but actually the wind and cloud surged in the dark. Accidentally, he was shot by a dark arrow and was scarred, but he didn’t know who he was hurt or who he was tired. In a word, in such a battlefield environment, it is impossible to prevent. Although we don’t need to treat a gentleman with the heart of a villain, we also need to know how to defend ourselves. So-called, fang ren zhi xin bu ke wu. Therefore, I climbed on Leike cautiously, only hoping that my heart which had been hurt would not be hurt any more. Three years ago, a close friend suffered a great dilemma in the workplace, which made her suddenly disheartened. She was always shrewd, capable and articulate. She thought that she could pass the battle if she could speak well, but she didn’t realize that her eloquence was her fatal wound. He is always a person who pursues fairness. As a leader, he also sets an example by himself. He is more considerate to the staff and pays little by little for the company. However, the sharp-edged woman forgot that the times had changed. The low-level staff was no longer a good man and a faithful woman. As a result, she fell into the dark arrow of her team members and became a victim of politics even worse. After that period of time, with my encouragement and companionship, she tempered herself stronger and more tactful. Later, she knew how to grandstand, and how to make love with others. Although that was not the change I wanted to see, it undoubtedly made her more handy in the workplace. Because of those who tried to hurt her, she had a deeper understanding in dealing with others and gained higher cultivation. Today, maybe she has put on layers of masks to welcome everyone in the workplace. However, the bright and dark arrows in the workplace force us to learn how to build an invisible city and protect ourselves. Maybe in the process, we also learned how to be hypocritical and cheat, but as long as we don’t hurt anyone, why not? There was once a friend who didn’t know her very well. Because of her background, she always had a little pity for her. Therefore, I always hope that my friendship can make her feel warm. One day, she said she wanted me to borrow money from me. I had never understood how to save money. I was penniless and could only admit that I could only take out 2 or 3 hundred yuan, even without any more. As a result, the chat broke up unhappily. She ridiculed that I am a hypocritical person, and even said that she was just testing me. Her words hurt my heart severely and hurt my friendship with sincerity more seriously. In her opinion, I am a person who speaks colloquial and doubts her. However, for me, friendship has become nothing more than that. My heart was hurt again. Through this incident, I have learned that we should not boast about ourselves as a person. We want to be a good person everywhere and help others everywhere. When others really ask for help, they can not only help, but also carry a hypocritical title, which is really stupid. At the same time, I also realized the magic of money. It can really turn against each other and make a good relationship break from now on. Thanks to those who hurt us, because they make us grow up faster. Once when I was wandering in the bookstore, I saw a book about thankful for the people who hurt you. At that moment, I sniffed at it and didn’t know why someone would write this topic into a book. When I think of it at this moment, it really seems reasonable. Most of the time, with a grudge, we always blame someone for hurting ourselves and discarding us in ruins, without thinking about when they discarded us, it is also a time for us to be reborn. Love the world of mortals, no matter they are betrayed by friends, hurt by colleagues’ secret arrows, or ignored by relatives, we should thank them all. It was they who taught us how to deal with all kinds of unknowns in the future. It was they who taught us what is life and what is the most sincere emotion. Tonight, the breeze is light, and the night is getting cooler. Under the Moonlight, I can still feel the music floating in the space calmly, staring at the graceful curtain in the wind. I know that I am still alive, perhaps because I am stronger and better understand the true meaning of human feelings, or maybe I have found the sky that really belongs to myself. Therefore, I want to thank her for hurting me. Without her, there is no me today; Without her, there is no existence of full moon and lack of 2012.08.14 Like (prose editor: dancing alone with rain) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. 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Divorced woman

I never thought that she was a divorced woman. The woman is not very beautiful, but she has a good figure and wears neatly and cleanly. She looks around forty years old. The bun she put on her head was always so shiny and shiny. On the whole, she looked very energetic. We live in the same building, up and down, often meet. When she saw me, she always nodded and smiled. I also nodded and gave her a smile in return. I often see her playing outside with a seven or eight-year-old girl. The girl is very beautiful, like a sister of milk tea. I thought it was her own child. Once, I heard that girl shouting to a woman: aunt, aunt, hurry up, I’m going to be late! Ningning should be angry with me soon! I saw a woman leading the girl hurriedly running outside the gate of the community. They held hands, like a mother. Once, I went outside to play with my little daughter, and happened to meet that woman with her. My daughter soon played with the girl. The two men laughed and had a good time. I began to talk with women. The woman said that she was here mainly to help her brother-in-law to see the children. Her brother was transferred to Beijing, and her brother-in-law had to go to work, so she couldn’t be busy alone, so she was here to help, it has been two or three years. I am surprised and admire that there are not many people who can throw away their own home and show their children to others. That night, because it was the first time we talked, we didn’t talk much. That day, I had a sore throat and said to her by accident. She said, “When I have time, I will take you to a place where there is a kind of grass called mint grass with strong smell. Take it off and drink it in water, it’s better than taking medicine. One day after dinner, she really took me to a place. She pointed at some green and dense grass and said to me, “Look, these are the things. They look ordinary, but they are very useful. You pick a few articles and smell them, it’s very fresh! I picked a few pieces to smell, but as she said, a fresh smell of mint came to my nose. She helped me pick some more. She said that when she was young and had a sore throat, her mother often used this kind of thing to soak her in water, which was very useful. It would be better in a few days, you can also try it! Indeed, I picked some and went home to soak in water to drink. It would be fine soon. I was very grateful to her. We gradually became familiar with each other, and the topics we talked about became more and more. Once, I asked her, “You are here every day, don’t you want your child? My children? She was stunned and didn’t answer me immediately. It seems to be full of worries. I suddenly felt that she must have a story. I felt a little presumptuous and abrupt. I didn’t continue to ask any more. I was afraid that it might hurt her because she didn’t speak well. As usual, we took the children out to play every night. They had a good time together. We were chatting there, chatting and talking about the children again. She suddenly said to me, you know? I have been divorced for several years. I was shocked. I suddenly felt that she was so pitiful. She told me about her past. She said that when she was young, she was full of longing and longing for the future. But unfortunately, she met her man, men always beat her, and there was nothing wrong with it. They always fought against her violently. At that time, she had already had a son, and her husband was still reluctant to give her up, sometimes for a word, sometimes for a small thing, even for a thing that women would not put on, hit her. For the sake of her son, she endured it at the beginning, but she couldn’t bear it any more. Her family all persuaded her to divorce! Finally, The son was sentenced to her husband, and she went out alone. After the divorce, she fell ill. She was seriously ill and had a tumor on her thyroid gland. Her mother said distressed, “do evil, do evil, all are angry by that bastard man. She didn’t want to see it at first. She lost confidence in life. There was only despair in her heart. She felt herself too tired. Dead end. However, her mother forced her to have an examination and an operation. The doctor said that she recovered well, which was beyond everyone’s expectation. Her illness was already very serious. After walking around the gate of hell, she experienced the test of life and death. She suddenly felt that living was still so beautiful. From then on, she began to cheer up, exercise and do some work within her power. Slowly, her body gradually recovered to health. Now, ten years later, she has forgotten that she is seriously ill. Look, I have a scar here. She pointed at her neck, and I saw, A scar was hideous in her neck, which was the mark of her struggle with the disease. I bought a house, not far from here. She suddenly changed her tone. 150 square meters, I want to decorate it beautifully, there must be a beautiful study, a comfortable bedroom, in addition, I want to plant flowers and grass, flowers and plants can make people feel the beauty of life and the power of living. I also want to bring my parents here and let them enjoy their old age here. When I look at the woman in front of me, how does she seem to be divorced? Why is it like a person who has suffered from a terminal illness? I really want to know where she got so much money, 150 square meters, for a woman who once had a terminal illness. In This medium-sized city, it seems a little difficult for two employees, and how did she earn so much money? She told me that after she recovered from illness, she went abroad with a labor service company. After working there for several years, she had accumulated a large sum of money, it is enough to buy a house for living. When my niece grows older, she doesn’t need me anymore. I still need to find a job. I want to live happily and forget all the diseases and pains, she said. I looked at the woman in front of me. She loved life so much and treated life so strongly and persistently. In the vast world, it was she who told me that life, no matter how big the threshold is, can be crossed by her own efforts. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…