On Blind Date

Recently, a friend was going to get married. She and her boyfriend met each other through blind dates. From meeting each other to determining the wedding date, the full time was only three months, which was called love at first sight in the words of the party concerned. To be honest, the speed is really flashing enough. We originally had a close relationship, which was similar to the kind of iron buddies. In recent years, we have been wandering outside and had less contact with each other. Gradually, our feelings became a little weak. When I received the news of her marriage today, I felt a little confused about it. The woman who once regarded herself as lofty and out of touch with the world could also blend in the secular trend, follow them to blind dates and flash marriages. Imagine that a traditional, introverted woman with a strong mental firewall can accept such a new thing, then whether everyone’s cognition has been so open! Indeed, these days, the topics of blind dates and flash marriages are flying all over the sky. Listen, all the aunts on the street are talking about that a woman is going to get married with a diamond man, and a man is going to get a young and beautiful girl, A girl who just got divorced got married with a girl who came back from studying abroad. She sighed again that her granddaughter was so big that she didn’t have a date with her, so she had to ask someone to introduce her to a blind date to follow the fashion by the way. Yes, this is indeed a fashion. Nowadays, blind dates and flash marriages are the hottest in society. When you turn on the TV and change channels at will, there will always be many blind date programs named ambiguous and disgusting. Men and women will show their personal status, status, appearance, talent, sensational and explicit confession, etc, everyone put their money, houses, cars and face conditions into the air after they were all dressed in hardcover. Then they got what they needed. When they looked at each other, they succeeded hand in hand. As for the powder and makeup removal on the stage, it was unknown. I really don’t understand whether those men and women on the show wore a few pairs of glasses to face this kind of thing which tested their eyesight. The so-called love at first sight seems appropriate but vulgar to use here, it is a little redundant. Also, the headlines of web pages and newspapers, which kind of money did XXX star get along with today, so-and-so stars also played flash marriages, so-and-so have obtained certificates secretly and so on. Similarly, when they are familiar with each other, bored with the smell, and the freshness disappears, with all kinds of pressures from life and society, I don’t know how many days they can survive. It seems that history is really spiral-shaped. Nowadays, it’s just OK that people like to dress in retro style. Even the marriage events follow such old-fashioned TV plots, which is influential! Tut… I don’t understand, I really don’t understand that nowadays young people follow the trend and fashion, whether the trend is happy or the reason is defeated by the trend. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Cleanse your mind and walk in life

Life is a cup of tea. Only by carefully tasting can you feel the taste. Life is full of a lot of bitterness. When you get used to it, it will gradually fade. The bitterness will stretch other flavors, making you have a long aftertaste and endless enjoyment. Open the window of the soul and let the sunshine come in. When the charming sunshine touches your mind, there will be a strange feeling, that is the smell of sunshine, the smile of sunshine, I also feel that life is like the sea, just like the spring blossoms. When the fallen England withered in the night wind, maybe you would feel disappointed. The next year would be bright, and that excited mood would cover all confusion. Fallen leaves were flying in the autumn wind, with too many regrets. Turning into spring mud, spring will be full of vitality, which is not a kind of philosophical, free and easy, just like the ups and downs of life, a mature, a refined. Life falls from the ground, which is convenient for this vast world to have an indissoluble bond. Innocence, youth, maturity, late autumn lies in the process of this world’s communication, and distance is no longer the length in the sense of space, it is the level and quality of communication. By extension, it is the art of living in this world. Love is a piece of paper. Once it is put into the envelope of emotion, love and sincerity must be written on the front, and anxiety and excitement must be written on the back. Time is the precursor of truth and can see through the true face of everything. Wealth, honor and happiness are all short-lived. Only love can stand the test of time, and the greatness of love is also tested in practice. As a father, I seldom say I love you to my son, but my actions reveal the love in my heart, which is unforgettable. For adult children, education is no longer criticizing and scolding, but silent influence! Forgiveness is a style, tolerance is a manner, and forgiveness is a style. Many people can be in harmony with the people around them to the extreme, and their families are as cold as ice. Getting along with family members also needs art, and family members are also emotional animals. Don’t just hope that the other party will understand you. Everything is centered on you. As the saying goes, the wife is praised, the husband is coaxed, and the child is spoiled. Hehe, of course, this is the mainstream, and it may not be the truth that is universally applicable. Don’t let others’ pain magnify, don’t sprinkle salt on others’ wounds, so reduce the psychological burden, life will be much easier, It is no longer a busy day. You will gradually become the perfect integration in others’ mind. The support of family members, the sustenance of relatives and friends, the best friend of friends, the favorite of beauty your life will be bright flowers and fruitful fruits. On the contrary, with all sides of the country and the sky covered with dark clouds, can life withstand geometry? We are all ordinary people. If we can move ourselves, our spirit will sublimate to a state. We might as well spend a little money to buy a small gift in a romantic season or an important day, give your appreciation and praise to those you like or your lover. The gift does not depend on its value, but is the representative of your mind, which contains profound meaning. What you return is not thousands of times, but too much invisible warmth and peace. This kind of value cannot be measured by money. It may change an environment, a person, or even a person’s life. A good word is warm in three winters, and bad words hurt the cold in June. The art of language is a manifestation of one’s self-restraint and cultivation no matter on any occasion or facing any object. While appreciating and reviewing yourself, you should learn to appreciate others, because everyone is the only one in the world and has its own unique shining point. You should affirm others’ advantages more and praise others more, remembering the benefits of others is a wise attitude towards life. Whether life is happy or not also depends on your own mentality. You will gain what you sow and get what you give. Use your philanthropy to influence the ugly soul, and use your broad mind to accommodate others’ injuries. The broad mind can fully reflect your emotional intelligence, which is a kind of art, it is a unique art that controls one’s own emotions and infects others’ emotions. This kind of art is the greatest effect in your life. You can experience the excitement of life everywhere and win eternity in the spiritual world. Trudge in life, properly detach the soul, love yourself more, properly change your nervous nerves, make room for the soul, find peace; Relax appropriately, let the fierceness and tension slip away, instead of being calm and confident. Don’t set too high a goal, let your soul catch up with your body, in case that the tired trek will eventually result in the collapse of failure. Measuring one’s own ability and weighing one’s own environment, everyone does not have the ability to cross the stream. Great perseverance and talent life is a series of running, which can not avoid falling down and unreasonable loss, when we are lonely and helpless, and our hearts are pale, we might as well calm ourselves. The Qi is spit out by others, and there is no oxygen anymore. Swallowing it will only cause nausea. When you ignore it, the gas will disappear naturally. The ship of life can’t carry too much material desires and Vanity. To avoid the ship being stranded and sunk, it must be unloaded and put down the one that should be put down resolutely and decisively. The previous experience has become a reference for the future. It is easy to sail and face everything peacefully. There is no boat sailing without injury, and it doesn’t matter if you are injured, because you should remember to ride the wind and waves. The Lost Butterfly cannot fly out of the room because it flies too high and is always unwilling to lower itself to find a way out. We can aim high, but we can’t stand high, because we have to walk on the ground to move forward. In the diverse society, you should learn to wash away the impetuousness of body and mind, and don’t care too much about gain and loss. Only when there are gains and losses in life can there be a taste. Not every dream can be realized, and every story has an ending. Laughing at the success or failure of life and accumulating a calm peace, you can have a wonderful life easily and smartly. Along the way, if you experience more and bear more, you will certainly gain more. Everyone bears a heavy responsibility, and some things are inevitable, only to face. When you feel that you should take greater responsibility, you will feel that I was still very relaxed! When we are busy, we should remember to be moved, happy, happy and rich! There is nothing in the world, but mediocre people worry about themselves. Don’t focus on the right and wrong of things. Everything in the world has no right or wrong. Just like the grass and flowers we see, the grass in the exquisite flowerpot is a kind of flower, and the flowers growing in the fields and mountains also become a kind of grass. And vice versa. Isn’t it? We are the same, a kind of grass is also a kind of flower. Don’t wait for others to define you as something. Asking others is better than asking yourself. It is always disappointing to place your hope on others. Your creation is your undeniable right! Those who do not know themselves are always ambitious, and those who are confident and self-respecting will win applause and flowers. Linyuan Xianyu, it is better to go back and connect to the net, do the things in front of you well, do the things in plan well, cherish all the happiness in front of you, don’t stick to people or things that you can’t put down, mention them when you should mention, let go when you should let go, leave when you should leave, don’t remember the grief of the past, learn to be satisfied, learn to be tolerant, learn to be better to yourself, and learn to be happy. Only in this way can everything be happy. Let’s embrace life with happiness, build life with enthusiasm, stick to work with confidence and wash our hearts with green tea. Life will be really beautiful! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Mood log

Just a person in the dark night pondering the tears to wash the missing to see through just a person walking alone melancholy life know that you are not the worst in the world also know that true love is far from so simple pain, sweet, I gave up the illusion of anesthesia in tenderness, which made me believe that I fell in love with it. When there are scolding around, I can stick to it stubbornly. When people around say you don’t love it, I also firmly believe that But you explained the trace of betrayal so thoroughly. My heart was not painful, only tears flowing silently, like a dead body, just remembering the vision in your eyes, serious and persistent. The flashing part of eyelashes is handsome and handsome. I have been thinking of you for a long time. Don’t want to give up, because love too heavy. As time goes by, the truth remains the same. But the feeling of being with you wanted to watch a vegetarian movie, which disappeared completely after the fireworks. I have missed it and tried my best, but I still can’t lock your heart. Breaking up is the last thing I can’t mention, but it is the best relief. Like (prose editor: Rain dancing alone) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

A trace of kindness left in my heart

On the morning of lunar December 27, I saw a vast expanse of white on the ground outside the window. It turned out to have snowed last night. This is the first snow in, which is less than that in previous years. Now it is the warming season in. After all, seeing the appearance of some snowflakes naturally gives birth to some joy! I saw off my second sister in the countryside at more than ten o’clock in the morning. The outdoor temperature was very low, the freezing wind was biting, and my hands and feet were cold. Walking on the white snow, the creaking and creaking made a crisp sound, the second elder sister was wearing a gray old short cotton-padded coat, and her thin figure was getting farther and farther. The streets were bustling and crowded. People rushed to buy all kinds of fresh goods, almost breaking the belly of plastic bags ——- the price of vegetables was much higher than in previous years, 12 yuan per jin of leek, and the local pepper was unwilling to lag behind, one point is not allowed, the newly emerging red hundred-dollar bills are only exchanged for plastic bags and green plants. A man put a few boxes of salute into the carriage —– it will be the New Year’s Eve of 2012 in three or four days, and suddenly I think of the little girl written in the text “The Little Match Girl” I learned when I was a child, is she living well now? Should we get married when we grow up? Is it still the same as then, will it freeze to death on New Year’s Eve? There is a man wandering on the street near my house. He has been eating and living on the street for several years. Every morning when he passes by, he always sleeps in the cold and damp corner of the cement wall, which is scary. When I passed by last night, my daughter-in-law saw it and said: This person is used to it! Thinking of this sentence makes me feel inexplicably angry. Can I get used to it? It suddenly occurred to me whether the text could be renamed “The big man who doesn’t sell matches” today. Just like Andersen, he wrote a fairy tale and published it in the Chinese textbook of middle school to let young people learn and learn, educated! So by the way, I thought that there was a Widowmaker in my hometown mountain village. The man was my playmate. In terms of generations, he should be a distant brother of the same age who was three months younger. Unfortunately, he died of kidney disease three years ago, leaving a daughter-in-law with mental derangement, a daughter and a pair of twin children. I don’t know how their family’s life is this year, and how are they preparing for New Year’s goods? Although there are sympathy and financial aid from the village committee, they are determined to be low-income households and enjoy the government’s annual living allowance, I think this is limited after all, and they cannot live as rich as others! Can I show some practical love to help, such as squeezing out some money and goods to show sympathy and love. Although it is just a drop in the bucket and has little effect, it can at least express that there is still a little sympathy and pity for others in my heart, so as not to be insensitive, rigid in soul and lose human feelings too early! After all, I am now receiving a civil servant’s salary to ensure that my whole family will not suffer from cold and discouraged. Caring and helping doesn’t have to be a matter of philanthropists and rich men. One caring can not solve many problems, at least it can reflect a person’s civilization and accomplishment. Why not do it? People who need financial aid are not limited to one or two families. For example, there are several families in our village who are still relatively poor and have poor living quality. It is obvious to all that they cannot show their sympathy and care one by one, it is necessary to do as much as you can! Squeeze 500 yuan out of his limited income, buy some things like sugar, melon seeds, biscuits, ham sausages, drinks, and bring a few bags of noodles, rice, a few pots of oil, go to their home sincerely and have a look at their living conditions, which may bring me some shock and touch, and generate some unimaginable inspiration and gains! From now on, even if you smoke less, eat less meat, drink less wine, go out for less, buy less fashionable clothes, save the money, do one or several things that can make you feel a little relieved every year during festivals! Of course, it should be no problem to discuss with your wife properly. If this thing can be done, I think I will get some comfort and comfort in my heart, and I will cherish my current shortcomings more, more ordinary life than others, and more cherish my own life, cherish the rest of your life and make some achievements in your limited abilities! The sky was already bright, the snowflakes were still flying all over the sky, the sky in the distance was vast, and the horns of the cars rang harshly. The female conductor of the coach invited guests to Lanzhou loudly, the number of pedestrians gradually increased, and a new day of life began! I hope this is not just a flash in my heart. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…