As the saying goes, feeding village-eating in a bowl, looking at the pot

When we were young, maybe because our families were poor and lack of clothes and food, we always held bowls when we ate, grooming into our mouths while staring at the rice cooker for fear of being careless, the rice in the pot will disappear. Sometimes, because I only look at the pot but not the bowl, I didn’t feel the meal sent to my nose, which made everyone laugh; Sometimes, I quarreled with each other because my elder sister was too much or my younger brother was too little, it caused adults to break the lawsuit. Adults always say that we are eating in a bowl, looking at the pot, and just say it. In fact, it is no wonder that people always feel that they do less when cooking. If every time you cook a full pot, who would like to take a look at the pot. Later, whenever my father bought something like comic books and stationery for us from outside, he would always give us an average score, for example, one for you, one for him, one for you, one for him, until the division is finished, this will avoid the civil war caused by uneven division. But sometimes, because it is easy to pay or other reasons, there will always be one more book or one more. In this way, everyone will certainly rob it. Father has to make a ruling: This book belongs to everyone and everyone will read it. But the problem is that no one is willing to look at his own first, but to rush to look at the public first. If anyone has a clear vision of his hand, he will say that he is mine after reading it. Take the property right of this book to your own name first. At this time, my father would still smile and say that you are really eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. This is puzzling. Obviously it is not a rush to eat, why do you still say that you are eating in a bowl and looking at the pot? Later, I heard that someone’s eldest son married a wife and wanted to live separately. Of course, parents and brothers had to build a new house in advance and prepare daily appliances. However, my son and daughter-in-law were still reluctant to give up after they set up another cooker, saying that the youngest son must leave family property for his parents after they split up. Then what should parents do in the future? They should make it clear first. But because their parents still had several sons who didn’t get married, they naturally couldn’t tell what to do in the future, which made their sons and daughters-in-law always awkward. After listening to this, the villagers talked about it one after another. The relatively consistent view was that other sons still wanted to marry a wife. Now the eight characters are missing. Haven’t you separated them well? I still don’t want to let go. It seems that it is really said that people are not happy, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. In this way, I gradually understand that the original meaning of eating in a bowl and looking at the pot is not to say what people do when eating, but refers to the lack of people’s hearts and greed, and it does not mean people’s normal dissatisfaction, however, greed is too hot to digest what we have now, so we have already aimed at the next target and prepared to start. When the villagers say this sentence, they actually want to warn people that they should not lack people’s hearts or be too greedy. Just like the son and daughter-in-law of the separated family, you should be grateful if your parents and brother still live in the old house and still keep working hard to build a new house and set up appliances for you, in the future, I will try my best to create a new life on my own, but I am not satisfied yet. I still need to calculate a piece of cake in the future. This is too greedy, and I am sure to be discriminated or even spurned by others. Of course, when I was a child, I heard and witnessed many things like this in the village. Later I went to the society. No matter in the media or in the real work and life, people who were eating in the bowl and looking at the pot could be said to be everywhere, some even put their hands into the pot before digesting the food in the Bowl, which led to hot hands or death, and ended up with a sad end. Even though he still took it from the pot with ease, he was already like a walking corpse in others’ hearts, wouldn’t he be sad? If these people, when looking at the pot, can think of the village where they or their ancestors lived, and when there is such a saying spreading, I think there will be some tremors in my heart, even stop it and won’t slide to the bottom of the pot. 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