Harmonious Marriage

Some people say: marriage is the Palace of Love. Some people also say that marriage is the grave of love. Marriage is a new family of men and women, a combination of men and women’s feelings, and a crystallization form of sex. 2011 nian, China has 12 million of men’s and women’s registration wedding, but 18 million of men’s and women’s marriage because of emotional rupture and registration divorce. Divorce has become a major feature of contemporary family turbulence, which hurts the hearts of many children and reflects the characteristics of freedom and instability of modern love. The country has issued a harmonious social policy, and I think marriage should also start towards harmony, so as to keep the family relatively stable and ensure the healthy growth of children’s physical and mental health. Why is the divorce rate rising in our country? Is it the renewal of the concept of marriage between men and women, or the popularization of the idea of seeking pleasure? Marriage is based on the voluntary consent of men and women. If there are behaviors such as arranging and cheating, the men and women after marriage will also find reasons to break up. A happy marriage is that a couple of men and women love each other, help each other, grow old together and never change their hearts. An unhappy marriage is a couple of men and women who have different bedfellows, and their personalities cannot be harmonious. Maybe men and women can’t stand the temptation of the society and have cheating behaviors on one side of the relationship. If a man has money, he will suddenly aim at beautiful young and qualified women, which will inevitably lead to the collapse of old marriages and seek for new love nests and new marriages. It is common for men to have the mentality of loving the new and disliking the old when they are 40 years old, but they must have certain material conditions. Either have the right or have money. Most of the people who change their spouses in the society are people with economic foundation, and there are also people whose families are poor and difficult to change the status quo. Some women said: there is no good man in the world. It means that nowadays men are easy to cheat, have different hearts and have no sense of responsibility. Most of the men and emperors in ancient rich families liked to play with many women, and this phenomenon also appeared in modern times. Women are willing to sell their beauty out of the need for money; Men are willing to pay for the woman they like out of emotional hunger and thirst. How to solve this problem depends on the emotional quality of men and women. According to friends in Shenzhen, the popularity there is open. In a family, men and women are free to move. They can sleep with whoever they want, but their spouses cannot object. If there is opposition, divorce is inevitable. Often when a woman reaches a certain age, her sexual life is cold, which leads to her husband’s sexual infidelity. However, she has a strong family consciousness and can tolerate her husband’s infidelity. But both sides really love their children and families. It is an economically developed special zone and cannot be compared with the mainland. The marriage law stipulates that men and women have the freedom to marry and divorce. A couple of men and women combine into a family, and they can’t live together. Divorce is a relief and a new combination opportunity. But it is unnecessary to regard marriage as a game, which is an unethical behavior. Is it true that if there are many divorces, love will be happy? I think it is impossible. On the contrary, I will suffer a lot from love in my heart. When a couple of men and women come together, they should understand each other, tolerate each other and cherish fate. Don’t be proud of yourself, always despise each other, and hurt each other’s self-esteem with words or force. In the family, the relationship between men and women is equal, and the situation of who is in charge cannot appear. Divorced men and women have emotional freedom, but where are your children? Either there is no father’s love, or there is no Mother’s love, the psychology is going to be hurt. Some of the children I contacted because of their parents’ divorce have prominent psychological problems, which are careless in learning, difficult to associate with others and afraid of marriage. The world needs Spring, and the family needs harmony. The stability of marriage is as important as the stability of the country. It is not good to have divorce disputes all the time! 2012,06,13 morning book. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Write for yourself

Seeing a paragraph of Han Han’s words, I felt very touched. After reading it, I always wanted to say those two sentences. There was no fixed pattern and thought, but just the rambling words where I thought of them. Indeed, people’s character and life attitude are not invariable, unless we don’t grow up any more. In the past, there seemed to be nothing except distant, while in the future, there was no determinable definite number except predicting. At the beginning of learning philosophy, the teacher said that everyone should set up correct values and outlook on life. At that time, his mind was totally between patriotism and love of life, and how to distinguish good people from bad ones naively. I always feel that life is white except black, and those bright colors just render the colorful life. Today, it seems to be such a stupid point of view that there are too many gray colors between black and white everywhere, the noisy and confusing environment always challenges our eyeballs unscrupulously. Black and White are just the most primitive keynote. Looking at all this, are we ready? People who know me will say that I am a nostalgic person. People who know me mostly say that I am unpredictable. And I prefer to describe myself in a simple way. When I am indifferent to the secular world, enthusiastic about human feelings, indifferent to the years, loyal to faith, and in a cold and hot mood, thoughts will also do some big or small struggles. To me, it is just a trace of growth. If I give my best love to words, then I will give more disgust to strangers. I am afraid of strangers. The environment is the same as that of people. Not only will I be more shy and more resistant, therefore, I will be shy and say nothing, forming opposition with myself who is lively and cheerful. More often, I gave this kind of myself to the words, making them no longer naked and feeble when I tap the keyboard. I don’t understand those people who express the feeling of life just like the first time, and I really can’t figure out what kind of situation it is. Most of the first impressions were mixed with artificial imagination, so that they were far from the later ones. The root of them might be those subjective things that they wanted to add when they first met. In philosophy, there will be Halo effect similar academic opinions to describe the influence of the first sight. Now, we will say whether there is eye contact or not. Facing the fast-paced life, it is always inevitable to be impetuous. However, calm down and think carefully. Is it really as busy and busy as it appears? Suddenly I felt that being quiet was a very happy thing. Looking back on the beauty over the past twenty years, I made many mistakes, said a lot of evil words, did a lot of ridiculous things and lost a lot of precious things. Today, those are absurd and unruly past, but what can I do? I can be very sincere and honest about all of these, although I will be shy and melodramatic, it will become a wake-up record, there was a heavy smell at first, which was not the effect I wanted, so I stopped, to be continued. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…