Truancy and absenteeism

When I was in primary school, my deskmate was in the same village with me and he was one of my uncle’s neighbors in terms of seniority. He was two years older than me. Generally, I called him by his name without scruple. At that time, there were three sisters in his family, who were extremely poor in economic conditions and often couldn’t eat enough. At the same time, the clothes were shabby and uneven. It seemed that the neck and face were not necessarily washed once for a long time, and there were always two snot dragging. From the teacher to the classmate in the class, they didn’t like them very much. And he not only lags behind in his study, but also has another problem: he likes playing truant. It was cold in winter, so he didn’t skip school, but he went to school every day and slept, as if he had a lot of sleepless sleep. I fell asleep soon after climbing on the table. The teacher found it, took the book to his side, and hit him with the book on his head! He suddenly woke up, but his slobber and snot were too long. He raised his head and looked around, with a panic look. The teacher had no choice but to let him go out and clean himself up before entering. He strictly warned him not to sleep in class in front of the whole class! But he never changed the old problem. The teacher simply no longer cares about him. In summer, he could skip school openly, and he usually ran without a trace after a class. For the first time, teachers and classmates found him in a pile of wheat straw. He slept soundly. He went back to tell his parents, but his parents couldn’t. Later, the teacher was too lazy to find him, knowing that he was no longer motivated, It is a Deadwood that cannot be carved. Sometimes I ask him why he played truant? He often said that he could not eat enough and sleep well! What to learn? It turned out that his family often ate porridge in winter. He was hungry and had no mind to study. He was sleepy all over his head. In summer, the family still eat less and drink less. What’s more important is that his parents go to the ground to harvest wheat very early every day, and take him to help at the same time. Hunger and fatigue made him unable to go to school normally, so he simply skipped school. However, after escaping from school, he could secretly eat other people’s pear fruit, eat it suddenly, and then sleep fast! Fortunately, the school management was not strict at that time, and there were not many systems such as the current performance appraisal. Naturally, teachers were too lazy to take charge of it. They liked to learn but not to learn, which seemed to have nothing to do with them. Later, his truant people all knew that it seemed that he was already common and not strange. It was not until a period of time before he graduated from primary school that his truancy improved. He has grown up a bit, and he knows shame and image. But after graduating from primary school, he dropped out of school. Several years later, he went to Guangzhou to work with one of his uncles. Since then, I had been going to school and then worked outside, which gradually had no influence on him. However, he would go home occasionally during the Spring Festival. When I saw him again, he was dressed and tied, with black hair and white skin, the dirty look in the past was totally different. I just heard that he has been doing well in Guangzhou in recent years and has a company of his own. During the Spring Festival this year, he drove hundreds of thousands of BMW home, with his unmarried but beautiful girlfriend, and came with deep love and dignity! And I decided to stay in my hometown for half a year. Parents in the village asked him why he suddenly came back to make a lot of money? He smiled and said, “Well, isn’t it 2012 this year? My parents have passed away for many years outside. It’s time to come back to see them and take care of them! On the first day of the new year, he entertained some elders in the village together with us at his home. I was a little drunk that day and had a heart-to-heart talk with him very late. He was also drunk for seven or eight minutes. He opened his mouth one brother and one brother. I wanted to correct him I am his nephew, but he didn’t allow me to change his mouth. Holding my hand, I even burst into tears. He talked about his past in primary school. At that time, his family was poor. He didn’t understand why his parents were so busy day and night! Poor, he has never had a delicious meal. At that time, he just had no mind to go to school and always wanted to skip school. But it was very cold outside in winter, so he had to sleep. It was really terrible to forget hunger by sleeping. Later, what he expected most was summer. He could leave school, find almost everything he could eat in the village, then have a good meal and have a good sleep. That was his strongest wish, it is also the happiest time for him! So he chose to skip school, because only skipping school could let him find his so-called happiness and comfort at that time! After he grew up, he gradually understood the importance of money more deeply! At the same time, in the past few years outside, he also deeply realized the horror of no culture. So he tried his best to make money, and at the same time he taught himself computer and knew a few words of English. Now I have not only my own company’s website, but also my own microblog. But he still envied me for studying well, going to a good school and having a stable job. With the taste of wine, I also told the depression in my heart. In fact, what is my job? We are actually not as good as you now, Do you know who is the poorest person now? He shook her head. We are the so-called cadres, the so-called national civil servants! Although there is a fixed monthly income, which can be guaranteed by drought and flood, in today’s society and environment, the meager salary seems insignificant! I am always absent from work now! He doesn’t believe that you are so excellent, how can you be absent from work? Alas, just like you played truant at the beginning, there are always some reasons. Sometimes I really feel that this job is meaningless. I can’t get home, and I won’t starve to death. But I have to support my family, and I obviously don’t like it, but I am still doing it, the cow pushes its head hard without drinking water, depressed, depressed! He advised me to work hard. You are a national cadre, which is what many people dream of. Aren’t many college students still busy looking for jobs after graduation? My current company recruitment, education must be undergraduate diploma! Or learning is important, learning culture is important! Now I still regret playing truant at that time. If it weren’t for my family’s economic reasons, I would have been admitted to college! People must have confidence and patience. In fact, it is not easy for me to start a business outside these years. Sometimes I compensate and sometimes I earn money. Only in this way can I compensate and earn money. Today, it is not easy! But now I figure out one thing, that is, I played truant at the beginning because of the influence of living environment, or forced. The reason why I tried my best to make money later was that poverty, hunger and hard work at that time made me fear! Sometimes, the environment can change a person! I kept nodding while listening. What did he say? Whether it is truancy or absenteeism, it is a betrayal and protest that he cannot adapt to the environment and cannot be satisfied with the real environment. 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