As the saying goes, feeding village-eating in a bowl, looking at the pot

When we were young, maybe because our families were poor and lack of clothes and food, we always held bowls when we ate, grooming into our mouths while staring at the rice cooker for fear of being careless, the rice in the pot will disappear. Sometimes, because I only look at the pot but not the bowl, I didn’t feel the meal sent to my nose, which made everyone laugh; Sometimes, I quarreled with each other because my elder sister was too much or my younger brother was too little, it caused adults to break the lawsuit. Adults always say that we are eating in a bowl, looking at the pot, and just say it. In fact, it is no wonder that people always feel that they do less when cooking. If every time you cook a full pot, who would like to take a look at the pot. Later, whenever my father bought something like comic books and stationery for us from outside, he would always give us an average score, for example, one for you, one for him, one for you, one for him, until the division is finished, this will avoid the civil war caused by uneven division. But sometimes, because it is easy to pay or other reasons, there will always be one more book or one more. In this way, everyone will certainly rob it. Father has to make a ruling: This book belongs to everyone and everyone will read it. But the problem is that no one is willing to look at his own first, but to rush to look at the public first. If anyone has a clear vision of his hand, he will say that he is mine after reading it. Take the property right of this book to your own name first. At this time, my father would still smile and say that you are really eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. This is puzzling. Obviously it is not a rush to eat, why do you still say that you are eating in a bowl and looking at the pot? Later, I heard that someone’s eldest son married a wife and wanted to live separately. Of course, parents and brothers had to build a new house in advance and prepare daily appliances. However, my son and daughter-in-law were still reluctant to give up after they set up another cooker, saying that the youngest son must leave family property for his parents after they split up. Then what should parents do in the future? They should make it clear first. But because their parents still had several sons who didn’t get married, they naturally couldn’t tell what to do in the future, which made their sons and daughters-in-law always awkward. After listening to this, the villagers talked about it one after another. The relatively consistent view was that other sons still wanted to marry a wife. Now the eight characters are missing. Haven’t you separated them well? I still don’t want to let go. It seems that it is really said that people are not happy, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. In this way, I gradually understand that the original meaning of eating in a bowl and looking at the pot is not to say what people do when eating, but refers to the lack of people’s hearts and greed, and it does not mean people’s normal dissatisfaction, however, greed is too hot to digest what we have now, so we have already aimed at the next target and prepared to start. When the villagers say this sentence, they actually want to warn people that they should not lack people’s hearts or be too greedy. Just like the son and daughter-in-law of the separated family, you should be grateful if your parents and brother still live in the old house and still keep working hard to build a new house and set up appliances for you, in the future, I will try my best to create a new life on my own, but I am not satisfied yet. I still need to calculate a piece of cake in the future. This is too greedy, and I am sure to be discriminated or even spurned by others. Of course, when I was a child, I heard and witnessed many things like this in the village. Later I went to the society. No matter in the media or in the real work and life, people who were eating in the bowl and looking at the pot could be said to be everywhere, some even put their hands into the pot before digesting the food in the Bowl, which led to hot hands or death, and ended up with a sad end. Even though he still took it from the pot with ease, he was already like a walking corpse in others’ hearts, wouldn’t he be sad? If these people, when looking at the pot, can think of the village where they or their ancestors lived, and when there is such a saying spreading, I think there will be some tremors in my heart, even stop it and won’t slide to the bottom of the pot. 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Maybe just a moment

Because my eunuch was hospitalized for surgery, he hurried to the hospital after morning self-study. When he arrived at the ward, people in the same ward said that he had entered the operating room. I climbed to the 8th floor, sitting outside the operating room with many patients’ families and so on. Before anesthesia, the doctor told me some details and asked me to sign. I signed several pieces in a row and left my ID card number. My hands shook a little unconsciously, and I felt hot in the early morning. In order to divert attention, we had to watch others chatting. A white-haired, thin old woman changed her operation clothes and sat down led by a tall man. The man held the medicine bottle high with one hand and put the other on the old man’s shoulder. People nearby talked with the old man. The old man said that the man was her son, and she had cataract in her eyes. She had been invisible for more than half a year, and everything was served by her son. I thought that I was almost 80 years old. If I couldn’t see it, I couldn’t see it. My son insisted on pulling her to have an operation, saying that it was just a minor operation without any pain, and I could see it after doing it, how can we not do it? The old man’s voice was very light, but the joy was beyond words. Others said: you are in good health and have such a filial son. You are sure to live over 100 years old. The old man just smiled. Her son looked at her and said softly to others, “she can’t hear. Her ears are on her back and she can’t hear at all. So at the beginning, she was asked to have an operation. She could neither hear nor make sense. Cataract was really just a minor operation. The old man came out less than an hour after entering, and his eyes were covered with white gauze. The man led her into the elevator and went to the ward. I thought it was just an operation, and I just came to the hospital for a few days, then I could see the beautiful world again. At the moment I took off the gauze, the old man really didn’t know how happy he was. In the anxious waiting, a woman in white dress and another middle-aged woman hurriedly pushed a patient into the operating room from the elevator. Middle-aged women are crying while young women are relatively calm. But the woman’s white dress was stained with spots of blood, and there were also blood on her hands and feet. There was a large mass of things like ink behind the skirt, and there were also some blood stains on the sleeves of middle-aged women. Those blood stains are bright red, as if they were just infected. Doctors wearing dark green surgical suits kept asking them to go in and help, and they came out soon after they went in. Soon, a lot of people gathered outside the operating room. It turned out that the woman drove into an old man who stopped and ran, and his leg was broken. Then she ran into another pedestrian and was also injured. Her car crashed into a truck parked by the roadside, and the truck rolled over. The thrilling scene immediately appeared in my mind, and my body shook for several times continuously. Just for a moment, the young woman became the culprit, hurting two pedestrians. The old man lost one of his legs in the street, and the other was also receiving treatment. This moment brought great memories to the three families. Maybe when the young woman drove to work, the old man just wanted to go back to the countryside. The pedestrian was walking on the road passing by everyday. At this moment, three unrelated people were mixed together. Two hours have passed, and the operating room is busy. I watched the people coming and going out and the people rushing in passing the time. All of a sudden, the operation room became lively again. Several doctors pulled a rescue car into another passage of the operating room, and a bunch of family members cried together. The patient was put on the breathing mask, and a doctor kept squeezing his chest. It seemed that the situation was very critical. Some of the relatives waiting outside made phone calls, some sat down blankly, and some cried bitterly. The patient on the bed looked young, saying that he had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. Suddenly the door on one side of the operating room was opened, and the doctor told those families who rushed forward to get the film first. The patient has already had a heartbeat, but the blood pressure is unstable, and the heartbeat may also stop suddenly. If it is possible to have an operation, if the situation is not good, there may be no chance to have an operation. These families were in despair. The doctor comforted them and said, “Let’s get the film first. We will try our best. Cerebral hemorrhage only kills people in a flash. There are many such cases around me. Not long ago, my husband’s colleague’s father was suddenly sent to the hospital, and now he is still in the ICU ward separated by walls. Suddenly, the doctor was calling my eunuch’s name. I ran to have a look. After the operation was finished, the doctor showed me the stones taken out. I sighed for a long time, and the moment I took out the big stone on my finger, my eunuch must have pain, but this pain would leave with the stone leaving. Life is countless moments. The ups and downs, joys and sorrows are all in one moment. We can’t predict every moment. Then, please cherish these small moments that we are happy. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. 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Tea Wu

I, a northerner, always drink black tea, especially my native Tongliao people. According to the old people, Tongliao people are famous for drinking black tea, it was once the two hot selling spots of black tea in the world, one is Mali in Africa and the other is Tongliao in. When guests come home, they should pick up a big teacup in front of the guests, grab some black tea and put it in the Cup, then use the hot water of the kettle to make tea, and let the guests drink it hot. Never brew wutushui, that is disrespect for guests. When chatting or playing cards together, put the tea in the Cup again and brew it until it is completely drunk. The Cup is big, tawny and bitter. What I drink is massive and generous, which is the characteristic of my Tongliao people drinking black tea. What makes Tongliao people like drinking black tea? It must be one side of water and soil to support one side. Tongliao is located in Horqin grassland with relatively dry climate and wind and sand. Ancestors think that only drinking black tea can moisten the throat, and only drinking a large cup of black tea can quench the thirst, thus forming the tea custom of Tongliao. yi bei bei inheritance down. After drinking kungfu tea twice with friends from the South, I felt very fresh and accepted a set of white porcelain tea set given by friends from the South happily, I also pretended to be a fake and tasted kungfu tea according to the tea ceremony taught by my friends. This product doesn’t matter, product unexpectedly produces a love, a Enlightenment. Drinking kungfu tea gives people a general feeling that it is meticulous and has a long lingering charm. It was a bit like when Zhuge Kongming sang the empty city plan, he had to sit down, be quiet, be able to hold it, play a guzheng in a hurry, move the clouds, move himself, and move others. However, I, Tongliao people, drink black tea directly without too many forms. 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Put the teacup full of pale yellow in front of the guests with both hands, and treat the guests with tea. It is a man who needs to hold the teacup with one hand to show his generosity. After smelling the tea, he slowly drinks the tea. However, women need to hold the teacup with both hands to show women’s elegance. During the repetition, I felt that I was confused. Why are Southerners strong in doing business with northerners since ancient times? The difference in drinking tea can be seen. Southerners taste tea while northerners drink tea. One taste and one drink, the purpose is the same, but the result is completely different. The purpose of northern people to quench their thirst is strong and direct, just like the corn grown in the cornfield, straight up until the Jade rain stick is hung. All the southerners also quench their thirst, but they can endure their temper. They feel that quench their thirst is not immediately. They should be euphemistic, just like the rice in the South, which needs enough water to bloom in the gentleness of the water. The tea tasting procedures make you feel the culture of tea and the true meaning of life when tasting tea. It can be seen that what southerners pay attention to is to see strange things in peace, however, this kind of ability of seeing strange things from the middle shows incisively and vividly in the products produced by Southerners and the business experience of southerners. When Southerners were tasting kungfu tea, it seemed that they were not only tasting tea, but also doing business. Written 2012100311:00 Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. 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