As the saying goes, the village where the father and mother are fed, it is better to have their own

In the world of life, parents are naturally the closest relatives. From childhood to adulthood, we lived and ate with our parents. Especially when we were young, we had our own parents to work on food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is undoubtedly our own to spend their money and eat their meals. It is a matter of course. It seems that we don’t need to think about it by ourselves. Of course, there is a saying spread among the population of the small village: If you have a father or a mother, you might as well have your own. It seems to make people feel that the relationship between children and parents is not necessarily the most reliable, especially in the aspect of economy, sometimes it is incompatible to draw a clear line. In fact, no matter how well their parents protect their children, no matter how rich their parents are, according to the logic of small villagers, it is to educate people not to rely on the trees to enjoy the cool, people should have the spirit of self-improvement and self-reliance. They should create wealth and their own life by their own hands and diligence. Only the wealth and life created by themselves can have a solid foundation, only in this way can we live a steady life. Under the wings of your parents, you forget to fly. One day you will lose your ability to fly. The wealth of parents is created by themselves, which is far less than that created by yourself. Only the wealth created by yourself can be more valuable and enrich and rich. What’s more, between parents and children, there will be endless entanglement due to economic problems, and even make them restless. Therefore, if you want to be independent, you must regard what your parents create as others’, which is not your own. Only with your own heart can you stand up and be upright. In our village, there was a family like this: men were working outside while women were farming with children at home. At that time, the family who were working outside was naturally the first family in the village, life is far ahead of others. Because others have ration, so does his family; His family has money, but others don’t. Every time when sending a money order on time on a monthly basis, the eyes of others can almost get angry from the money order. Anyway, during a long period of time, their life was full of flavor. Later, when my son got married as an adult, I retired and went back home to work. The villagers began to work. The original pattern naturally changed quietly. The conditions of many families gradually improved, and the smiling faces became more and more interesting. On the contrary, the civil war of this family was constantly upgraded. My son and daughter-in-law always thought that I was pinching the money and only took out a part of the expenditure, and the rest seemed to be saved, so they complained to scold others and even tore their faces, the old woman was also suspicious of the old man. She chose her son and daughter-in-law when standing in the team, The old man’s grievance and bitterness could only be poured out to the villagers. Finally, after a super civil war, my son took his wife to roll up the blanket and join the team of going out to work. Unexpectedly, with the bitterness of the young couple, a few years later, his family’s motorcycles, tricycles, color TV sets, refrigerator, washing machine, phone no one should jie quan, also Reversal of dilapidated adobe houses, built a brick top of tile-roofed house, least spent 100 thousands or 200 thousands, of course this 100 thousands or 200 thousands certainly not his father saved, for those limited pensions, the daily expenses of the whole family had already been reimbursed, but it was the inevitable result of the son’s fight for a sigh of relief. When he ran to modernization, his life naturally became normal again, having tasted the pride and satisfaction of spending the money I earned, I must feel confident when walking in front of others, which is the result of my own efforts. Imagine, if my son didn’t get rid of his dependence on Lao Tzu in time and didn’t have the courage and courage to fight for a breath, could he have the modern life created by himself today? 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Fishing alone

One person, one Pole, one hat, one chair, a gentle and rainy day, fishing alone by the river. Fishing alone is a pleasure. After experiencing the hustle and bustle, it is another kind of life to calm down and fish alone. Or the sky is high and the clouds are light, or the rain and the wind are drizzle, forget the troubles, let go of everything, blend in the nature, love fishing and accompany with the mountains and rivers. I am free and unfettered. People who have never experienced it don’t know. Fishing alone is a kind of waiting. Waiting for bitter. I don’t smoke, but I can’t help lighting a cigarette when I am alone Fishing. I watch the cigarette burn slowly in the curl of smoke, thinking about the problems that it is difficult to calm down and consider at ordinary times, thoughts can take you far away. In fact, life is not a single fishing. More often, it is waiting silently. However, as long as there is a fish in your heart, the longest waiting is nothing! Fishing alone is a kind of persistence. The fisherman is not for fish, but for fishing. Many people found nothing after waiting for a long time and chose to give up. But there are also some people who choose to stick to it silently. Even if it is still in vain, there is still no complaint or regret, because only real fishermen can understand the process of fishing, just like Waiting for Happiness in plain, it is the most rare spiritual wealth in life. Fishing alone is a kind of artistic conception. At the moment of striving for fame and wealth and striving for wealth, it is not only a kind of feeling, but also a kind of artistic conception to have leisure and leisure to fish alone beside the river. The wind is singing softly, the rain is lingering, sitting alone by the river, detached from the secular world, leaving no intention to leave, and overseeing the clouds outside the sky, it is no different from practicing in the world of mortals. Fishing alone is a kind of character. Many people are afraid of loneliness, and even more afraid of tasting loneliness. It seems lonely to fish alone beside the river, but the solo fisherman is not alone, but tasting loneliness. Only by enduring loneliness, enduring loneliness, being cautious and cautious can we not lose ourselves in the red wine. Instead of going with the flow in confusion, you might as well learn from a real fisherman. If you fish alone by the river, you will realize many different things. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…