Thank you for the one who hurt you

Thank you for the one who hurt you

Some people are not worthy of your resentment; Some people are not worthy of your care; Some people you can’t forget even if you want to forget, while some people, you want to remember, but you can’t remember his appearance any more. But there are some people, you must sincerely thank them, because they have made you grow up. Inscription standing in front of the window, I am used to feeling the companionship of the night silently in the empty night. There are love songs on the radio, which are either sad, sad, brisk, excited and melodious, but they can only gently touch the piano string in the bottom of my heart. The pulse is beating and flowing with the notes. A faint feeling is rippling in my heart. The once stirring spirit and the once deep-rooted memory seem to have drifted to the place called memory with the wisps of breeze. When the wind blows, the whirling curtains inadvertently let the Moonlight pour out, sprinkling the thoughts all over the floor. In the dark, there is a clear and quiet light. Looking out of the window, the sparse stars flashed slowly, making the starry sky seem so calm. The past is like running water flowing through the atrium, shaking off the slight concern, deeply grateful, shining on the cold ground like moonlight. Looking back on the past, how did you get to today and how did you get to today? It seems like a lifetime. People came to this world naked from birth, just like a piece of white paper, a basin of clean water, pure white, clean, without any pollution. However, after years of baptism, no matter how white the paper is, it will be stained, and no matter how clear the water is, it will be mixed with dust. Therefore, human life is gradually dyed with different colors by this world. Every graffiti and every bit is an experience and knowledge. The turbulence of life makes us learn from childhood to fall down and then get up. In the process, we may have been tossed and honed by people, things and things around us, leading to scars and even remoulding. But it finally made me who I am today. Many times, we are experiencing a shocking event, no matter in love, in the workplace, or in life, we cannot face problems in frustration. Under the circumstance of hopeless, self-destruction, I even thought about leaving this colorful world. However, in the years when we are living like a year, our hearts are bearing the experience of life, gradually becoming hard, and at the same time accumulating our experience. As long as you can break through that thick mist, you will find that many mountain roads are actually made by people in panic. Tonight, when the past haunts my mind again, there is still a vague gratitude wriggling in my heart. I once regarded all the sweet words as silent promises to each other, and I regarded the passion for a moment as permanent permission, but I didn’t think that the love had passed away, the sweet words of the past will become annoying nagging, and the sweet words of the past will become disturbing words. Once upon a time, once I thought of the past few words, it would hurt my heart like a fine needle. Therefore, the loss and malaise are just for the deep feeling that I should not have. Every time I think of those stinging words and ruthless behaviors, it always makes my heart shed unbearable blood indifferently. The mottled Palm clenched its fist. I never thought how to hold it tightly, but I still couldn’t keep the passing of time. I remember that when I was young, I often urged myself to move forward with a belief. Every time I encounter difficulties, I will remind myself that life is not a smooth road, and every obstacle is a kind of experience. However, when I encounter real difficulties, I always let sadness confuse my heart and can’t see anything clearly. The crying eyes indeed see the world more clearly. Those ferocious faces and false masks gradually become clearer in life. Yes, life experience can make us grow, and the people who hurt us are more like a flat grinding stone, which ponders us into a tool, just like a sharp blade. If properly used, it can be used for defense, but it does not hurt people. I want to thank those who once made me heartbroken. It was she who abandoned me in the deserted ruins, she robbed the sun in my heart, made me struggle, and made me grope for the dark days. But I should thank her, because during my exploration, I may have gained more life experience, more knowledge and a pair of clear eyes, we can see many helplessness, ruthlessness and cruelty in the world. When I finally walked out of the ruins, I found that I unexpectedly unwittingly embarked on another more gorgeous and unforgettable journey. In the workplace, the bullets and the bloody storm. Occasionally it seemed to be calm, but actually the wind and cloud surged in the dark. Accidentally, he was shot by a dark arrow and was scarred, but he didn’t know who he was hurt or who he was tired. In a word, in such a battlefield environment, it is impossible to prevent. Although we don’t need to treat a gentleman with the heart of a villain, we also need to know how to defend ourselves. So-called, fang ren zhi xin bu ke wu. Therefore, I climbed on Leike cautiously, only hoping that my heart which had been hurt would not be hurt any more. Three years ago, a close friend suffered a great dilemma in the workplace, which made her suddenly disheartened. She was always shrewd, capable and articulate. She thought that she could pass the battle if she could speak well, but she didn’t realize that her eloquence was her fatal wound. He is always a person who pursues fairness. As a leader, he also sets an example by himself. He is more considerate to the staff and pays little by little for the company. However, the sharp-edged woman forgot that the times had changed. The low-level staff was no longer a good man and a faithful woman. As a result, she fell into the dark arrow of her team members and became a victim of politics even worse. After that period of time, with my encouragement and companionship, she tempered herself stronger and more tactful. Later, she knew how to grandstand, and how to make love with others. Although that was not the change I wanted to see, it undoubtedly made her more handy in the workplace. Because of those who tried to hurt her, she had a deeper understanding in dealing with others and gained higher cultivation. Today, maybe she has put on layers of masks to welcome everyone in the workplace. However, the bright and dark arrows in the workplace force us to learn how to build an invisible city and protect ourselves. Maybe in the process, we also learned how to be hypocritical and cheat, but as long as we don’t hurt anyone, why not? There was once a friend who didn’t know her very well. Because of her background, she always had a little pity for her. Therefore, I always hope that my friendship can make her feel warm. One day, she said she wanted me to borrow money from me. I had never understood how to save money. I was penniless and could only admit that I could only take out 2 or 3 hundred yuan, even without any more. As a result, the chat broke up unhappily. She ridiculed that I am a hypocritical person, and even said that she was just testing me. Her words hurt my heart severely and hurt my friendship with sincerity more seriously. In her opinion, I am a person who speaks colloquial and doubts her. However, for me, friendship has become nothing more than that. My heart was hurt again. Through this incident, I have learned that we should not boast about ourselves as a person. We want to be a good person everywhere and help others everywhere. When others really ask for help, they can not only help, but also carry a hypocritical title, which is really stupid. At the same time, I also realized the magic of money. It can really turn against each other and make a good relationship break from now on. Thanks to those who hurt us, because they make us grow up faster. Once when I was wandering in the bookstore, I saw a book about thankful for the people who hurt you. At that moment, I sniffed at it and didn’t know why someone would write this topic into a book. When I think of it at this moment, it really seems reasonable. Most of the time, with a grudge, we always blame someone for hurting ourselves and discarding us in ruins, without thinking about when they discarded us, it is also a time for us to be reborn. Love the world of mortals, no matter they are betrayed by friends, hurt by colleagues’ secret arrows, or ignored by relatives, we should thank them all. It was they who taught us how to deal with all kinds of unknowns in the future. It was they who taught us what is life and what is the most sincere emotion. Tonight, the breeze is light, and the night is getting cooler. Under the Moonlight, I can still feel the music floating in the space calmly, staring at the graceful curtain in the wind. I know that I am still alive, perhaps because I am stronger and better understand the true meaning of human feelings, or maybe I have found the sky that really belongs to myself. Therefore, I want to thank her for hurting me. 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When you encounter countless problems and doubts in your life, you must take it calmly. If you want to live a happy life, you must put down the pressure. Whether you are tired or not depends on your mentality. If you don’t clean the room, it will be covered with dust. The dusty heart will become gray and confused. We have to experience many things every day. Happy and unhappy all settle down in our hearts. As soon as there are more things in my heart, it will become disordered, and then my heart will follow. If some painful emotions and unpleasant memories are filled in the heart, they will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten the gloomy heart; Only by clarifying things clearly can we say goodbye to troubles; Throwing away some meaningless pains will make happiness have more and bigger space. Troubles are all made by oneself, and troubles should be put down. Happiness is actually very simple. The so-called practice of smiling is not to move your facial expressions mechanically, but to try to change your mentality and adjust your mood. Learn to accept the reality calmly, learn to speak to yourself and let it go, learn to face the bad luck calmly, learn to look at life positively, and learn to think for the good in everything. In this way, sunshine will flow into my heart, driving away fear, darkness and all haze. Happiness is actually very simple. Don’t be unhappy yourself. Introvert people are easy to get self-abasement. Put down self-abasement and delete self-abasement from your dictionary. Not everyone can become a great man, but everyone can become a strong person in heart. Inner strength can dilute all pains and sorrows; Inner strength can effectively make up for your external deficiencies; Inner strength can make you walk on the road fearlessly, I feel that my thoughts are higher than all the buildings and peaks! Believe in yourself and find your position. You can also have a valuable life. Gai now lives a very happy, rich and colorful life. Especially the spoiling of children leads to their dependence. When they grow up, they are easy to fall into a kind of Sui character. They must be urged to put down laziness, strive to change their fate, and do not blindly envy others’ unique skills and tricks, through constant efforts, you can also have it. Because, it is a unique skill to practice a simple action to perfection; It is a unique skill to make an ordinary trivial matter perfect. Remind yourself, remember your reminder, you are motivated, happy, healthy, and kind, and you will surely have a brilliant life. Contemporary people are easy to be afraid of difficulties. If they encounter difficulties, they will not overcome difficulties and lead to negativity. They should put down negativity. If you want to be a successful person, then please cheer for the best of yourself, let the positive defeat the negative, let the noble defeat the humble, let the sincerity defeat the hypocrisy, let the tolerance defeat the narrow-minded, let happiness Defeat Depression, diligence defeat laziness, toughness defeat vulnerability, greatness defeat wretched. If you are willing, you can be the best of yourself in your life. No one can control the outcome except you. Not all dreams can become beautiful realities, but beautiful dreams can also pretend the beauty of life. To be a person, you should first review yourself. Don’t complain all the time. You should put down your complaints. Instead of complaining, you should work hard! All failures are prepared for success. Complaining and discouraged can only hinder the pace of success towards oneself. Putting down the complaint and accepting the failure calmly is undoubtedly the posture of a wise man. Complaining can’t change the status quo, and fighting can bring hope. Real Gold, as long as you don’t bury yourself, as long as you concentrate on flashing, there will always be a shining day. Throughout all times and in all countries, many miracles of life are created by those who initially took a bad hand. Don’t always worry about life. Don’t always think that life has betrayed you. In fact, you have as much as others. Some people are afraid of the front and the back when doing things. They are not determined or decisive. They always hesitate to do things. We should put down our hesitation and act immediately, with infinite success! Look for things, don’t be indecisive; Selection of a direction, of the only road, don’t look back. Opportunity is like lightning, which can only be captured quickly and decisively. Immediate action is the common characteristic of all successful people. 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We not only want ourselves to be happy, but also share our happiness with friends, family members and even strangers we never know. Because sharing happiness itself is a kind of happiness, a kind of higher level happiness. I suddenly realized that in this world, the most precious thing is free. Sunshine is free. No one can live without sunshine. However, from childhood to adulthood, has anyone ever paid a penny for enjoying sunshine? Air, for free. As long as a person alive, we need a steady flow of air.-since ancient times, and who for this something indispensable in bought single? Whether they are peddlers, pawns or star politicians, they breathe the air filling the world freely? Affection, is free, every baby into the world, are subject to the care of parents, it is not an in-depth blood return of love,-from no parents would say to your child: I only love you if you give me money. This love of parents will not depreciate because of the child’s adulthood, nor will it be weakened because of the aging of parents; As long as parents are still alive, this love will always be the same. Friendship is free. The one who accompany you silently when you are lonely, the one who stretches out his arms to you when you fall down, the one who takes you in his arms when you are sad, have you ever put him (her) the payment is converted into cash, and then I want you to pay back? Love, is free of. That involuntary admiration, that to be uncontrollable miss, that through thick deep feeling, that xiangruyimo love, life in deepest consolation and most solid rely on. And all of these are free. Even more, money can’t buy them. The goal is free. Whether it is a prince who is well-dressed or a vagrant who is naked, as long as he is willing, he can set a goal for his own life. This goal can great also can ordinary, can brilliant also can simple, as long as you like, you can have. And faith, still have hope, will and dream all this, are all free, as long as you want, you can get. There are also spring breeze, drizzle, bright moonlight, and bright stars. How many beautiful things that nourish the soul in the world are all free. Don’t sigh at heaven any more. Heaven is just, it is even more generous; Heaven has already given the most precious things to everyone for free. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…