Life needs to be put down constantly

In life, people often complain about the hardship of life, the difficulty of life and the unfairness of fate. The income is meager, but the price is constantly rising. I have paid a lot, but I can’t get what I deserve. What I thought should belong to myself ended up in other homes. How can such a variety of things not make people feel angry? After all, there are a few people in the world of mortals who can be extraordinary and refined. It is inevitable to complain and complain. Who is not full of confusion about life and anxiety about the future when he is suffering and helpless? Everyone can understand this. But when I think about it carefully, which one in the world can go smoothly and achieve what he wants in his whole life? As the saying goes: nine out of ten unsatisfactory things in life. Dissatisfaction is an element that cannot be eliminated in life, but its root is the desire that is never satisfied in the heart. Buddhism says: life is suffering, and the root of suffering lies in various desires. There are eight hardships in life, including no need to ask for, no need to let go. In life, there are too many things to pursue and want. Love, career, family, money, status, honor, when you can’t get it, you should think about it day and night, dream for it, and the taste of each person should be bitter words. When I got and had it, I wanted to hold it tightly and was reluctant to put it down any more. When I had to put it down due to various reasons, a new pain came into being. In this way, if you want to avoid pain, just let all living beings in the world escape into Buddhism and practice to the realm of no desire and no need. It doesn’t mean that. On the contrary, only when there is pursuit in life can there be hope, and only when there is goal can there be motivation. Just because of the dissatisfaction and constant pursuit of human beings, the society keeps moving forward and people’s lives are greatly improved. But pay attention to the degree of everything, and there are too many things pursued in life. If there is one thing that can not be obtained, the heart will not be satisfied. If there are too many things that can’t be put down, life will become heavy after a long time. The House needs to be cleaned frequently and some uncommonly used things should be cleaned to keep it clean and spacious. The computers we use every day need to check and kill viruses regularly, clean up garbage and plug-ins, only by emptying the recycle bin can it run normally and quickly. Life is also like this. Only by constantly putting down and abandoning something timely can we become relaxed and happy. Especially for those things that you don’t want to give up but have to let go, it is better to let go openly and smartly than to defend hard. Sometimes, for some things, it is better not to ask for, unable to grasp, it is better to take the initiative to put down. Putting down is a kind of wisdom, not incompetence, nor failure. Let go or not, sometimes even a life-or-death choice. I remember when I was young, I heard a story from my grandmother: long ago, in a village, there lived a rich rich rich man and a group of poor people. One summer, the village was surrounded by floods with heavy rains and floods. People fled town; And. The old rich man was no exception. He packed up all the valuable things in his family, carried a few big burdens and ran away. When there was no way to escape, he climbed to a tree nearby. A poor man who worked for an old rich man had nothing valuable in his family, so he climbed onto a big tree with a few steamed buns. The heavy rain kept falling, and the water rose higher and higher. Two days later, the old rich man was hungry, thirsty and tired. The poor on another tree saw him pitiful, threw him a nest and persuaded him to throw away the burden, but the old rich man was reluctant. Another few days passed, and the poor saved their lives by several nests. When the weather was clear and the flood receded, the old rich man was so tired that he fell into the flood in a rainy night. The drop-down in this story is just tangible drop-down, and its meaning is not only relaxed and happy! Those invisible drop-down may bring more and greater influence to people. The so-called: put down one thought, and feel at ease. Putting down not only means losing. While putting down, you may get a lot, such as freedom, calm, and more precious is the complete liberation of the soul. Life is short, and you should cherish it yourself. Let’s abandon those tangible and intangible obstacles and let everything be random, casual and casual. Only when you travel lightly can you walk more calmly. 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Memento picking up of four

Nowadays, there is no evidence for rivers and mountains. In the sound of drawing corners, horses come and go frequently. Who can say anything about desolation? The West Wind blows the old Danfeng tree. Should there be countless bitterness in the past? Iron Horse Jingge, Qingzhong dusk Road. Passionately devoted deep dash? Deep Mountain sunset deep autumn rain Nalan Xingde “Butterfly Love flower. When I was young, when it came to Qingming Festival or other festivals, my father led me to go to the grave. After worshiping some tombs in my family, I would climb a hillside and a narrow terrace which had been deserted in the past, in the middle of the sparse grass, there is a lonely grave. Father raised some food in front of the grave, burnt some paper money, and knocked three heads after finishing. At that time, I also kowtowed. The man buried in the grave was called Ma Shuan, a relative of my distant family. My father called him grandpa. He died early, probably in the 1960 s. I was born late and had no chance to meet him. My father told me about this relative of Ma Shuan when he went to the grave at that time. He was the former actor of Shanxi North Road Bangzi Opera Troupe and the Enlightenment master of Jia Guilin, a famous actor of North Road Bangzi. My grandfather is a super opera fan. Maybe because of him, one year the North Road Bangzi Opera Troupe was singing opera in our village, and Jia Guilin was having meals at my grandfather’s home. My grandfather is proud of it every time he mentions it in the world. He played in the troupe, that is, he played a trick. He entered early. Before liberation, he lived in some private theatrical troupes. He had suffered a lot. He knew a lot of plays, one move at a time, with enough kung fu on the shelf, and the performance was getting old, most newcomers in the theatrical troupe are led by him. Maybe it is because the sky is not a dummy, and the voice is born to be insufficient, so it is not satisfying to sing, so there is a saying that there is no horse plug for singing. However, no matter which role is short of people at ordinary times, he can go to emergency, which belongs to today’s golden oil and so on. Actors, in the past, most of them had no way out to enter this field. xue xi hard, long for life wandering, acted on the stage genius and beauty in pairs, in reality and goes for rare someone home. The social status is low. When you are on the stage, people will cheer for you. It is not necessarily possible to get off the stage. Once you get old, you can’t sing any more, then you will make people in the theatrical troupe look supercilious, and it will be difficult to eat and eat. The elder relative of my distant family, who had never married in his whole life, had been living in the theatrical troupe. When I was old, I was ill and couldn’t help me any more. Some people in the troupe inevitably said coldly and frowned, so I was embarrassed to continue staying and sent a message to my grandfather, my father and several uncles brought him back from other places. After a while, he died of illness in our village. His hometown was in a village called Ma Jian dozens of miles away from the east. No one in his family was willing to handle his funeral, so there was no way out, my father and uncle buried them on the hillside beside their graveyard. I have been studying and working for more than twenty years from my hometown. During this period, I also went back for several times. When I went to the grave to make up for the filial piety I owed to my relatives, I would certainly climb the hillside, burn some paper money and respect some food for him. Sometimes I sat in front of his grave for a while, looking at the surrounding long loess, grass breeding, wind blowing through the hillside, and silence around, I would think that the underground world, it should be more desolate than this! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…