Yan Yan Yu Fei

Writing down these words, I really felt something intertwined and could not be distinguished one by one. When my wife and I migrated back and forth between the old family and the city, it was nothing like a swallow who came back and forth in a hurry. This kind of taste was ups and downs in my parents’ hearts, but after such a long time, I got used to it. Now my daughter goes to school thousands of miles away, and she is also a swallow flying alone. What we didn’t care about or even ignored at the beginning surged into the thoughts and emotions in our parents’ hearts. Now, in our hearts, the same ups and downs make people feel a lot of emotions that are hard to explain. When I was in Wuyi, my daughter and a group of classmates went to Qingdao to see the sea. For the children who grew up in the mountains, probably, the sea had unparalleled charm in their hearts; I don’t know the realization, she didn’t tell us that she didn’t know about their trip to Qingdao until she left a message on QQ and found out the unspeakable grievance when her wife went online; at that time, I was very angry in my heart, with many words of blame; I was still on the phone with me on May 1st, why didn’t I say a word, this child! Although I have entered the university, it seems to be a little big, in fact, I have no social experience at all. How can I do what I want in a short vacation? There are a lot of people and cars during the holiday, so there are many hidden dangers. It is impossible to say that it is not worrying. Ask for advice in advance to let you know how good it is; But this is the case, what can we do? After all, thousands of miles away, beyond our reach, unable to contact, we can only wait. Fortunately, their trip to Qingdao was not long. They went there the day before and returned the next day. My daughter who came back to school talked to me about Q and reported that she had a safe life. I said, I was really angry this time, it was not because of going out to play, but because of some expenses; My daughter knew what I was talking about and said she would never dare to do it again; After I said a few words, I didn’t answer any more. Later, my wife said that my daughter was very upset. Normally speaking, when the child is older, she should have her own space and freedom under her control; In my opinion, this is only one aspect; Enjoy life properly and broaden my horizon, not bad, but you must let your family know their whereabouts, otherwise, there will be a lot of tangled things. I am not the kind of parents who hold their children in their hands and dare not let them go. I hope they have more self-reliance ability, but after all, they are young and lack experience and experience to do everything, let us know that it is not a good thing to provide appropriate staff. As long as it is right and valuable, even if there are risks and challenges, it will only be beneficial to try; On the contrary, some things can be taken into consideration by telling her what to notice and the ability to design, otherwise, it is better to give up or not; In this way, at least you can avoid many detours, and you don’t know to wake up suddenly until you hit the south wall; Probably, this is also the indirect experience mentioned in books; The complexity of life, the changes in the world, far from what a young man can see through at a glance, more advice or more reference opinions will only bring benefits; Therefore, I have repeatedly warned that when you have your own opinions to behave and do things, integrating others’ suggestions appropriately will only be of great benefit, which is much better than one’s pondering and speculation. On Mother’s Day, my daughter sent two couriers from Shandong, one of which was a massage machine and the other was some small gifts bought for us when traveling in Qingdao, including the second volume of the series of “Caigen Tan” for her sister; Her daughter said on the phone that several classmates bought massage machines and sent them home. She remembered that her mother often felt numb a while ago, I always sit in front of the computer, with my shoulder and neck always calling uncomfortable, which is just for use; She didn’t say anything else, probably, with good intentions, because she wanted us to be thousands of miles away, feel the softness and thoughtful of a girl’s heart. I told my wife that it seemed that the girl was really big; After this sigh, I felt more mixed with each other, the smell of time mixed in my parents’ heart many years ago. As I said, I am not the kind of parent who wants to tie my children around me and reluctant to let them travel around the world. I am just a family affection flowing in my heart, which makes me unable to put down many concerns. Such a mood, naturally, probably, every parent who is already middle-aged and has a growing child is the same. There is a word called Flying Dreams; Since it is flying, it is possible to leave ten thousand or eight thousand miles, and it is possible to miss deeply and care about continuously, but this is only in the process of flying, the indispensable inner heaving, such deposition and watch, is for a higher and bluer sky; Yan Yan Yu Fei, probably, this is also a lifelong chase, a pair of wings, A long road, full of feelings, will always be the story of this life without silence.

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