Misunderstanding can isolate the relationship between people

Never thought I’s English Language Log, will I cause a misunderstanding, almost lost a net friend. If not that day morning idle boring, no objective to browse the web, in someone else’s space shuttle, will not find yourself one friends of space suddenly locked the door, let me eat denied entry. All of a sudden, thought into the wrong space, so, repeated sure I spoke with Meredith a word or two, on coming back to space, happens to to your buddy list can not find her name. A fear suddenly my heart, quickly search their own memory, ever clean space, not care of removing her, I don’t want to cause misunderstanding, more don’t want anyone to think I am so ruthless person. Set out to without undue her delete after, panic into melancholy, thinking, whether own aloof unbearable, as for drive her into the blacklist, from before her disappear. Many times, really doubt yourself interpersonal appropriateness, always feel was a lonely person. Never liked with others answer, especially cross-purposes colleague. Every day, with a false mask work, in addition to work rocking, I would avoid interact with other. For space communication, and I was often just silently watching so-and-dynamic, few in space stay in under a word. I rarely for talk about or article leave a comment, unless read after feeling makes me feel want to leave meaningful words. If after reading, do not know how to wording, I will quietly leave. Occasionally, I will choose in privately send message to QQ, not their care or worry, world all her. Even if someone give me a comment, I also only accept, rarely Reply. Perhaps this is my net friend not much reason. But, I always believe that friends is a kind of wealth, is your fine not expensive multi. Whether because of this, pal who will erased me, huh? With a open heart, and a lucky psychology, I searching in that friends QQ NUMBER, again add her as a friends. I was feeling a little stalker, and unwilling to unprovoked offend anyone, or lose a friend. Fortunately, she accepted my request. So, I carefully to her ask whose what happened. Eventually found, that is just a misunderstanding. That day, I wrote a English log, sensitive she thought I cede her comments, thus wrote her toffs log, not let her a message. What of it, a little ridiculous, but also got me thinking. A unintentional actions could, a not many people can’t read, but in virtually hurt a heart of docile. Relationship between people really delicate. Often as long as a look, a word, a look, a movement, even do nothing, people’s relationship is will from far and near, or from near and far. And world many beautiful myths, the squeal of the tragedy, also may start with some pinpoint move. Punks between because a look and created a sensation in between men and women because a smile and each other heart-to-heart; Couple between because a sentence non-senz yu split; Between friends and relatives because a an unintentional and enemies. But, when people sit down quietly look back, but will find that is just a misunderstanding, and even their own sensitive psychological as well as the damage. Some people, for dignity, would rather let misunderstanding continue not bow; Some people, servile, only in order to retain each other between a little relationship, but forget because of misunderstanding of slit, will always put in each other heart. My life, from kids, to juvenile, to now, also be have a lot of friends. Many friends in passage of time, gradually forgotten. And some, also for unintentional a word, or a move, from each other heart multi-The Invisible Wall, or heart of Thorn, separate ways forever. Years ago, I had a very good female friend, and I is confidante. We don’t mind rub shoulders we can unbridled verbal spasm. In each other eyes, we playing the most really yourself. However once, because of emotional problems, my sentence non-senz yu, but let me lost a can mutual spit mind friends. At that time, she fell into emotional disputes and made many male friends in order to anesthetize herself. She went shopping with different men day and night, but she couldn’t forget her boyfriend who had broken up. Looking at her day and night fall, I kindness comfort, results let she mistook I am talking her promiscuity, humiliate myself. So, she had left a word, ever in my life disappeared. In the market, you have to be more careful about your words and every move. Maybe you will make people think that you are a swordsman and a sword hidden in a smile. If you are not careful, you will be mistaken as a scumbag. Every day richuerzuo, sunset, we all in and different types of people, and tend to work on disputes overshadowed shameless been’favor’as. Even if do nothing, just hard do job, still will make people give wanna take away attendance bonuses reputation. So I had to reticence, just to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding. Also which earned a withdrawn been’favor’as. Someone once so tell me, survive understand adaptation environment, know how to tergiversate, impossible to isolate, let me hear the shudder. What sort of world, let I can’t tell who’s real and, who is leave. Especially, those who say this is a I trusts very much friends. Instant between, suddenly a little skeptical US whether also exist mutual use, insincere relationship. A chill by back rise. For my article English Xinyu, caused a terrible misunderstanding, unexpected. If I did not clarify, each other can be wronged, even if jumped into Yellow River and nothing can clear. Users posting and RE, explain my can feel her heart uncomfortable. In fact, I doubt of erring, never thought her any blame. For me, only one for unnecessary misunderstanding, but more let me comprehend some sense. After that event, I again remind yourself of that with his words and conduct; And. Although I forbear to camouflage themselves, but than innocent cast grievances. Actually, I don’t care how others see me, but if my every move inadvertently hurt anyone’s mind, not my heart hold with those who favor. As a saying goes, mouth, loose lips, I can deep experience this sentence meaning. I unready tongue, often will a kindness, considered] was being nosy, be seen as trampled personality, results I also from this and lose friends. From then on, I told myself, without another word. Helpless but found, original do nothing, can also cause misunderstanding. But I think, most importantly, how to clear the air, even if ultimately cannot tide, at least have followed my conscience and worthy world 2012.05.22

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