Superficial said education

What parents need to know most is how to educate their children? When children come to this world, only their parents are their first teachers. However, to educate children well, the most important thing is to deal with the parent-child relationship well. Some people say that if parents establish absolute responsibility in their children’s hearts, children believe that parents love themselves unconditionally and that all parents’ criticism and praise are for their own good, if children fully believe this in their subconsciousness, then this relationship is benign, and it is a stable relationship of mutual care, mutual support and mutual understanding. Then the next education problem is simple, which is the so-called accompanying children to grow up. Who doesn’t love his children? What exactly is love? At present, it can be said that more than 90% of parents regard spoiling as love, fearing that their children will suffer and be bullied, and blindly giving them good food, good clothes and good drinks. In fact, this is just a way of love; There are additional conditions, such as entering the top three and five places with a high score. I can’t remember who said this. True love is the feeling that one life likes another life. It is an equal relationship and unconditional. It is a kind of overall acceptance, which is to be received by the other party. This sentence is right, it should be like this. All parents want their children to become successful, only learning scores in their eyes; Everything in life is done for them. Look, how many children can’t wash clothes and fold quilts when they go to college now? Can’t self-care. Even some children can’t leave their mother for a while, and they have to sleep in a bed at night. There are many reasons and reasons. Why are you afraid of sleeping alone? What do you miss your mother too much? What is not used to sleeping? See if these reasons are astonishing. What’s more exasperating is the children raised by themselves through hard work; Those who don’t understand respect their parents, and they keep their mouths open and talk with dirty words. Think about it, which parent has such a child, who is not angry with seven meat and eight elements: How did you raise such a white-eyed wolf! Who do you blame for this? Isn’t it the failure of one’s own education? Learning is certainly important, but what I want to say is that moral education is the most important. We should tell them how to be a man from childhood! Then how to live? Finally, how to learn skills. Friends, am I right? I remember a famous writer in the former Soviet Union said like this, the so-called love for children, even the old hen can do it. Yes, the problem is that how to behave is the most important thing. You say that you love children and try your best to lay rich material for them; Don’t let them suffer a little pain and suffer a little sin. Is This Love? No! You’re wrong. My point of view is: no matter what your condition is? All children should be allowed to bear hardships and suffer, exercise their survival ability in life, and make sure they know that everything must depend on their own efforts; Everything is not caused by strong winds, it requires hard work. Otherwise, how could they know how to fight, how to deal with people, how to respect the strong and treat the weak in this noisy world? Do you know that the flowers grown in the greenhouse can never withstand the raging of the storm outside. One day, I couldn’t remember which day it was; I was tired of writing and went downstairs to take a walk in the park, watching people drawing top in a wide square. Looking into the alley, I suddenly felt someone patted me on the shoulder. Looking back, I saw several neighbors bought vegetables. They pulled me aside, arguing and asking me to judge their son. It turned out that the children of their two families upstairs and downstairs were playing roller skating shoes in the competition. This said my son won; That said my son was the best. Only the neighbor who was opposite to me smiled and didn’t say anything, I was about to speak; Suddenly, a little boy’s shadow ran over, shouting mother and taking over the vegetables wrapped in the neighbor’s hands; I nodded straight in favor. At this time, the two people upstairs and downstairs still pulled my arms one by one, asking repeatedly: Come on, who son is the best and the best? I opened my arms and made a movement, with a full face of helplessness: I only saw the best son! Smart, you know what it means! Although it is a glimpse of dragonfly water, I believe it will enlighten you; I only hope that all our children are an upright person!

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