Charm, from change

I haven’t had skin care for a long time. At first, my daughter was ill, and I wanted to accompany her; Later, the beautician who did skin care rented the store again and needed to decorate it. This morning, she called and said she had time. I said to my daughter, go with my mother, take your books and do homework there. My daughter lifted a small paper bag in Yang’s hand. She had already prepared it and was just waiting for me to leave. On the way, my daughter said to me, “Mom, I think you are not as beautiful as before. How beautiful you were when you were young. I said how did you know? I was not beautiful when I was young. My daughter said to me quickly, “No, Mom, you were very beautiful at that time. I have seen photos of you when you were young. An old dress looks good on you. However, Mom, I think your appearance has changed now, which is not the same as before. I understand what my daughter means. She means that I have become ugly now. She hoped to have a beautiful mother around her, although I knew that it was not malicious for her daughter to say these words. I told her that what you saw must be the photo of me when I was in school. At that time, my mother was young without any pressure of life, and naturally she was much more beautiful than now. I think of everyone who was familiar with me before and didn’t see me for a long time and then suddenly met me: how did you become like this now? You are much thinner! This is what they must ask. It includes the teachers who once taught me, my classmates, and relatives I haven’t met for several years. One interesting time was when I was a correspondence undergraduate, I sat with a boy who once worked as a classmate, and I recognized him at a glance. However, he didn’t recognize me. It was not until another classmate sitting beside us introduced him that he widened his eyes in surprise and said: Are you Han Shuang? You converted! I have lost weight for a whole circle! Also very haggard and old. I felt unspeakable embarrassment at that time, yeah! Most of the students I have met are heavier than before, and their mental state is very good. Only me, a face of depression, depression. At that time, I lived in unhappiness every day. I was hit by ruthless injuries. The trifles of life have made me feel that living is unnecessary. I live in regret every day, in the pain of resentment and nowhere to vent, but for the sake of children, I still have to live on. I was hardly willing to look in the mirror again, because every time I looked in the mirror, my heart would feel painful once, and people would feel inferior. The self in the mirror was so ugly, old, listless, sallow face, a face of illness and helplessness. To borrow a sentence that my friend said to me later: at that time, I was like a village woman. How could I be like a person who had been educated and had a good career? At that time, I felt that I was the worst and ugliest woman in the world because of the unhappiness and unhappiness of life. Later, I read an article whose title was “the root cause of making women ugly”. The above sentence deeply touched me: the most harmful thing to a woman, it’s just resentment and guilt. The former makes us aim at others with vicious energy; The latter is to turn around the muzzle and aim this negative emotion at ourselves. You can be angry and then take actions; You can regret and then improve yourself. But please give up resentment and guilt, which not only make women ugly, but also bring diseases. The author also gave an example, saying that she was a handsome girl she hadn’t seen for many years. When she met each other again, she was shocked. At that time, I was speechless and didn’t know what to say. In the author’s eyes at that time, that beautiful girl with delicate temperament was beyond recognition and had no temperament at all. It turned out that her girlfriend had been living and suffering from resentment and regret because of her unhappy marriage and no way to divorce. When she looked in the mirror later, she found herself becoming more and more sharp, more and more vicious and more ugly. Because the misfortune of life leads to psychological unhealthy, It not only changes my appearance and temperament fundamentally, but also leads to physical patients. Life can sculpture a person’s appearance and body. Finally, the author said: in order not to be ugly and not to get sick, people only have more love to fill their hearts. This article has taught me well. People can’t live in the pain of resentment and being hurt and tortured forever. You can’t change others, then change yourself! If you can’t adapt to the environment you live in, then choose to stay away! Now that everything has gone, then choose forgiveness! If you forgive others, you will give yourself a retreat; If you forgive others, you will save yourself. I know that the carving knife of time has left deep scars in my body and soul. I know that I am no longer young and beautiful. However, I have relaxed my heart; I have regained a simple, happy and loving heart; I still have a kind and loving heart, that sufficed. I hope that in the future, I will constantly improve myself: not only should I pay attention to the external decoration, but also should I pay attention to the spiritual decoration. I think, a middle-aged woman who is intellectual, kind, intelligent, confident and affectionate will become more charming even if she doesn’t look beautiful, and her life will also become more wonderful. Charm comes from change. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Ordinary

You and I are both ordinary people, and we must have an ordinary heart. As the saying goes, what is needed to make up for what is needed. For a writer, what you eat is grains and grains. What you have experienced in the course of your life are all human fireworks, various emotions and seven emotions, six desires, kindness, love and changeable heart please remember not to let the works you write make people scared. It is not that others don’t understand you but that you pretend to be profound. Is that necessary? How many real literati and tyrants have written from ancient times till now how many classic sentences have been written? Why are their works circulated till now? Although they have experienced the baptism of literature for years, they are still Eternal not because they only write exquisite sentences, but because their works come from the authenticity, plainness and beauty of life. Only by combining can we get the recognition, recognition and resonance of many kinds of readers. This is a good work. After reading some articles, it makes people laugh and cry or even have no language to use the saliva that literati turn over and over, and wear the gorgeous language that others have used. You are not a politician, thinker, writer, critic, scientist, inventor, creator, you are not a presenter with empty spirit. You don’t have the function of miracles beyond ordinary people. You need to understand Chinese characters. People who can understand Chinese characters don’t fool readers. You will feel tired when looking at you. Literati should pay attention to the cultivation of connotation literature, the cultivation of human beings, the cultivation of the world, the changeable and healthy comprehensive thinking. It is the spokesman of all kinds of human beings and the image of truth, goodness and beauty. People are the pioneers of health and advancement. They are the explorers of human souls, not the businessmen who only talk nonsense and lie and make virtual stories. Don’t forget that a writer is show people’s true spirit and the most practical life. You must speak ordinary language and do the most ordinary things. Because we are all ordinary people, you must write down the most ordinary things in the world. Is a writer Ordinary qualities that must be possessed Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Men and women

I have never wanted to write more about men and women, but I am a man, what’s more, I am still a man of temperament; Love is born at will, I can’t help writing down a lot of words that sometimes even can’t be seen by myself. All things in the world live and control each other. Yin and yang live and protect each other. They live and live forever. Yin and Yang are not separated from Yin. This is the survival law of all things in the universe, and human beings are certainly no exception. Men are half of a woman’s life, while women are half of a man’s life; Men cannot live without women, and women cannot live without men. I think the most important thing for a man to come to this world is probably to find a woman to accompany him and finish the long life journey together; Relatively speaking, women are also like this. If you must say that men can live without women, and women can live without men, then I can only say that you are unreasonable! A woman is like a flower, and a man is her necessary and best nutrient; Only with sufficient nutrient can that flower bloom more delicately and blossom all her beauty. A man is like a boat, and a woman is the harbor where he stops; A man’s life is like a boat sailing in the sea, wandering from place to place, bitter wind and rain; Because a woman loves it, only in this way can he have the sweetness of tired birds dropping into the forest and the warmth of sailor returning to shore. If a man doesn’t have a warm harbor to stop at, that kind of life will be desolate and failed. The difference between men and women lies not only in body but also in sex. There is no need to say the external one. Everyone knows it. As for the internal one, women should be like cats, sheep, rabbits and so on, while men should be like eagles, wolves and dragons. I prefer women of cat nature. Women of cat nature are melodramatic, sweet, gentle and rich in connotation. You need to do everything you can to love it! You have a saying: men should be ambitious Changhong, flying dragons in the sky! But I always think that dragons are illusory and too abstract things. I think it is difficult for most men to reach the highest level, so I prefer wolves, I think Wolf sex should be the symbol of men. Because of the inner difference between men and women, men need to do many things that women can not do; Women should not do many things that women can do. Take self-cultivation, family harmony, governing the country and pacifying the world. For example, this sentence should be specifically for men. As a woman, it can be great good, and it can’t be no harm; For another example: women can be delicate, Daddy, birds, it seems that such a woman has feminine taste and can win the love of men! Men are very indispensable! Otherwise, it is not like a man; When a woman encounters troubles or tangles, she can be willful, indulgent and unreasonable in front of a man. If she is like a man, she should be coaxed and tolerant, however, when men encounter difficulties and frustrations, they are not willful, indulged and even unable to make troubles. I think the best way is to smoke and drink. It is natural for a man to raise a woman. If a woman raises a man, a man should be ashamed. A man’s life is too difficult! But it seems that a woman’s life is not easy! There are some things that women need to experience and bear. Men don’t have to take responsibility, such as giving birth to children and being a good wife and a good mother. In the traditional feudal society, men can have three wives and four concubines, while women must follow three disciplines and Four Virtues; Men’s wives and concubines can show their dignity! Women follow the rules to spread good news. Not to mention in ancient times, even in today’s era of new society and great opening up, men and women still can’t get along with each other in terms of ethics. Maybe this will be a reason that will never be unfair. When a man gets married, one more or two more women outside can be regarded as romantic, even if they are buried in the flowers and drunk in the Blue House, it can be called romantic; While women are different, if unmarried women change more men, they will be aquatic Yanghua, married women will be called sluts if they are out of line. Men don’t have to worry too much about their reputation when they are romantic. Women who are dissolute will be notorious and may be cut off for a lifetime. Some people say that women are animals with upper body thinking, while men are animals with lower body thinking. Therefore, more people said: there is no man who does not eat fishy food. I dare not raise my hands to agree with this sentence, because I am afraid that if I am brick by them! But it does not mean denying it. Color word pledge! For men, women are undoubtedly the biggest temptation and the most deadly weapon; Since ancient times, heroes have been sad about beauty! How many heroes worship or fall under women’s pomegranate skirts. Maybe there will be one of thousands of men who don’t eat fishy things, such as Guan Yu in “The Three Kingdoms” and Wu song in “The Water Margin”, but I don’t think it can be proved exactly. Good men and good women both have innate wisdom and spirituality. Good men need women’s training and warmth; Good women need men’s nourishment and cherish love. Like (prose editor: Rain dancing alone) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

mo shang hua fall four seasons of life

Loneliness is that in time, I always get used to using words to kill time. Although I know that what I write cannot be called articles, because articles are very serious and philosophical words, therefore, my words can only be regarded as the mood of graffiti at most. They are just simple words and will never have anything to do with articles or chapters. Just because I like it, I want to use words to turn the past in my life into flying flowers and fallen leaves engraved on the ruins of the purple Mo fleeting year. Time flies. Some people say that life is a dream, and what flickers in dreams are all illusory and dazzling; Some people say that life is a play, and there are performances with veil dressing both inside and outside the play; some people say that life is a journey, a process of trudge and ups and downs; Some say that life is a piece of autumn leaves, and it is hard to get rid of the helplessness of falling in the wind after the glory and brilliance; some people say that life is a wisp of light smoke, curling Nana, dancing lightly in the pan. I said: life is more like bright fireworks, loneliness and sadness, like a boat floating in the sea, ups and downs, waves; Like spring flowers, summer rain, autumn Leaves, winter snowflakes….. When we are ignorant, we feel that the sky is light blue, the clouds are light White, the grass grows and warblers fly, the blue sea and blue sky, the water is gurgling, even the wind is full of poetry, and the rain is full of painting. Looking forward to the coming of a incisively and vividly misty rain, which is refreshing to my heart. The drizzle is like weaving, silky, Wisp, clear and shallow. I like the night when the branches on the moon are shining, look up at the deep sky, count the stars all over the sky, and look for the faint bright spot that belongs to me. Sometimes, at a moment when the moonlight kisses the flower stamens vaguely, the dream in my arms will fly secretly in the sky with high clouds; I hope that one day I can witness the repulsive White Rabbit nestling beside Chang ‘e and taste the osmanthus wine brewed by Wu Gang. I always dream such an irrelevant dream in my heart. I also wanted to rub the time into the fragrance of fleeting years. Those colorful fantasies were like elegant ribbons tightly wrapped around the dancing body, like water time and tender feelings, just like the spring of the four seasons, it is colorful and clear. I used to be confident and ambitious. I believed that I would work hard and gain what I gained. I struggled hard day and night for my goal, family and career, competing with thousands of sails and competing with each other. At that time, life was just like the sunshine in summer, sending out fiery red and warm. Although there was also a time when the sky was clear and thousands of miles away, it was suddenly covered with dark clouds, lightning and thunder, and suddenly it was pouring rain, and everything was washed off by surprise. But after the wind and rain, with a slightly cool and pleasant breeze, the haze in my heart was gently brushed off by accident, and the air was mixed with the fragrance of silk and flowers. Filled with the endless mood in the time, the titbits of the fleeting time spread all over the world. The hesitation and helplessness once existed, and the disappointedly cold flew down with a rain. Life is just like the summer in these four seasons, warm and warm, rich and heavy. Autumn is high, the leaves are silent, the White Dew is frost, the tall buildings are full of dusk, the Phoenix leaves are rustling and rainy, the autumn is solemn and beautiful, and the empty is permeated with tired heart, the old face was filled with desolation and confusion. The autumn of life is originally the harvest season. Success in career and ample food and clothing can be described as success and fame; Children can be described as happy and happy. Tears, loss, pain, bitterness and frustration once turned into yellow leaves falling all over the sky into mud in the soft autumn wind, and life became mature, steady and open-minded. Light wind and soft moon, sitting in the shallow time, suddenly looking back, fallen leaves are rustling, sigh how much do you know about the fallen flowers in your dream? Wandering and falling red, singing and dancing in the air. Life as four seasons of autumn in the wind light cloud light, fruitful. Entering the winter of life, there is no longer the desire for money and power. After years of sharpening, my mind becomes peaceful and indifferent, and I feel more calm and tolerant in my heart. I know that having a plain life is happiness, I love the quiet and sweet time, and I know that the setting sun is infinitely good, just nearly dusk. I will also sit quietly in a sunset, drinking a cup of tea, laughing and watching the clouds rolling and the clouds surging, enjoying my wife’s thoughtful and appropriate scratching and knocking on my back happily. Life is like the winter in four seasons, cool and quiet, solemn and lofty. Life has gone through countless spring, summer, autumn and winter, wind, flowers, snow and moon, and life bears countless ups and downs. Impressively understand: Petals will not stop withering because of people’s regret, and time will not stop flowing because of people’s sadness. In the miscellaneous life, you can find the joy like a firefly, and your mood will be as quiet as the autumn lake. The pure sky is rippling with the depth of time and the thickness of the cycle of four seasons. Flowers bloom not fall, but the real meaning of life lies in experience and process. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Life Story “two”

Today’s life is really realistic, which makes people helpless and speechless. Opening your mouth and closing your mouth is money, money and money. Regardless of what you are doing, the first problem is the white silver. However, life is also like this. You see, why are corrupt officials greedy? Robbery why robbery? Prostitution why prostitution? Why is it so revealing to wear in public? You said it was for hype! Then why is it hyped? After all, it is not for brother Kong. Speaking of this money, it is really a good thing. It is difficult for you to leave it. If nothing else, which one can leave only in daily life; Which one does not need brother Kong to take the lead? Let’s talk about the reality and romance in life. There is nothing wrong with reality. Is romance wrong? Especially love lacks romantic passion, which is the dry reality; Is this kind of life still interesting? Rigid following the rules three meals a day, work, eat and sleep again and again; Don’t think about anything in the rest. Dude, I asked weakly: Don’t you watch TV series? That’s all written by lunatics who are a little romantic and neurotic. Do you know that if they follow the rules as you do? Even if you torture him seventy-two times, he can’t write a word. How? You don’t believe? I think it should be like this. Because I am such a humble graffiti person, not to mention the great scriptwriter and director! The rich have the romance of the rich, while the poor have the romance of the poor. The romance of the rich is to offer 99,99 roses to the person he loves and take her to Hawaii for vacation. The romance of the poor is to present a red rose for the person they love and take her to the suburb to watch the sunset ending. In fact, it doesn’t matter whether you are poor or rich. What matters is whether your love for her is sincere and infatuated? If love is measured by money, what a bleak ending will it be? On the other hand, can’t love without bread last long? There is no food in the belly and frequent singing of empty city plans. Where is the beauty and warmth of love? Hey! How many people sigh: life and love are really a mess, and the entanglement and contradiction are suffocating! Love bread bread love, which is more important? Life should have been colorful, but why should I bear a heavy burden for myself? If a person has no heart to pursue utility, and no intriguing calculation and harm; How unrequited and undesired it will be! Who can achieve this state? Is you? Is I? Or him? All the people were there shouting loudly, calm and calm. However, all the people subconsciously wanted to be promoted to a higher position and gain both fame and wealth; They all wanted to live a happy life for a long time. Things go against one’s wishes. The supreme authority of time dominates all people’s lives; If you have money, you will die as well as if you have no money, and if you have no name, you will die as well! In that case, why not unload the heavy cross and live happily? Learning to love yourself is also an attitude in life! Some immature words are just words as you wish. Everyone has his own view of life, and everyone is experiencing a different fate from others. Because of this, no one has the right to judge who; No one has the right to blame who? No one is qualified to tell others what to do? Follow your own feelings, follow your own heart, happy or not? Pain or not? Only you know it. Why point fingers at others? Like (prose editor: prose online) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

I have an appointment with Prairie

After listening to some songs, one generation will never forget them. Because it has entered your soul and resonated with your soul. I used to overlook you in the distance, I used to bring you close in dreamland, I used to pray for you silently, I used to deeply hold your soul, my favorite song “I have an appointment with grassland” is just like this. I have an appointment with grassland to find a common root. Promise with singing, promise in the majestic and magnificent mountains and rivers; Promise in the blue sky with white clouds with deep feelings; Promise with soul, promise the vow to keep in dreams; Promise with life, agreed in the boundless grassland! This song has a unique style, which is not completely National or popular. The low and soft female voice turned out to be the most beautiful voice in the world. This voice sounded purer and made the soul happy, just like a clear stream, flow into our hearts. After listening carefully, the girl’s voice contained a little hoarse and a little vigorous, which made me infatuated and walked into the grassland with the song. I always want to see your smiling face, listen to your voice, live in your yurt, and raise your wine bottle. This song makes me yearn for the mysterious scenery outside the Great Wall and the unrestrained life of herding horses and sheep on the grassland. I want to hear the melodious sound of Horsehead, see the vast grassland and the high sky, feel the artistic conception of the sky is gray, the wild is boundless, the wind blows the grass and the sheep are low, and I want to chase the white clouds under the sky on the boundless grassland. That was the heaven in my dream, that was my peaceful world, which made me unable to help stirring my heart with tears. Listening to this song like this, slowly, in this song, I was drunk and didn’t want to come out from it any more. Seeing your smiling face so innocent, hearing your voice so touching, living in your yurt so warm, tasting your milk wine so sweet. I didn’t grow up in the grassland, but I was eager to lie on the grassland like soft satin and blue sea, looking up at the blue sky and white clouds on the grassland. In my reverie, I want to have a chance to get along with the vast grassland. For countless times, my heart and dream will stop on a vast prairie decorated with yurt. Looking forward to the boundless green grass under the clear sky of thousands of miles, there is no complicated life, elegant and calm, the mind will be suddenly enlightened with the vast grassland, and the heart will be indifferent and quiet due to the clear blue sky, it also makes the farthest missing have the nearest reach, because I have an agreement with grassland. I have an appointment with prairie to tell my missing feelings. Today, although I have the desire and impulse to go to the grassland, I still have an agreement with the grassland. With this romantic and persistent agreement, I can only step on this piece of milk tea, the yearning for the magical land moistened by the wine is expressed in the song over and over again, which can be regarded as talking about self-respect. Like (prose editor: dancing alone with rain) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

And daughter chat

My daughter and I are very close. When we walk together, we often hold hands or I hug her shoulder. I didn’t act as a parent, and my daughter was happy to chat with me. Once, my daughter went to learn art. It was still early. What should I do? I said, let’s have a chat. My daughter started to talk to me about the students in their class. My daughter said that many students in his class were in love, and some of them had changed several. I said, what do you think of this problem? I think they are just playing, not falling in love at all. If a boy likes you, what will you do? I asked her again. Mom, don’t worry, I won’t talk about it. My daughter’s attitude is very resolute. However, Mom, I have an idea to tell you. What idea? I asked her. Mom, when I think of being with a strange man in the future and lying on a bed, I feel goose bumps all over my body. Hearing my daughter finished, I smiled. I told her that you are still young now, and there is no need to know much now. But what mom wants to tell you is: one day you will grow up. When you grow up, go to college and take part in work, you have to face the problems of marriage and having children. Love is very beautiful and also a normal human emotion. We should not reject it. However, you are too young to talk about love earlier. You can like and appreciate others, and others can also like and appreciate you. However, this kind of love and appreciation should be pure without any utilitarian purpose. For you, it should be a good feeling. Mom never opposes you to associate with the opposite sex, but you should be measured and measured. Girls still need to be reserved by girls and not indulge themselves too much. Girls should learn self-esteem and self-love, and girls should learn to cultivate themselves and arm their brains with books and knowledge. Girls need to know some knowledge about dressing up and make themselves more beautiful, but the real beauty still lies in the heart. We can only call a beautiful but superficial girl as a vase. My daughter listened to me and nodded. Said, mom, I have another idea, that is, one day I went to college, I hope I will become ugly and have no temperament. Why? I asked her again. I just read an article. A girl named Zhou Yan was pursued by a boy. He didn’t agree and burned her. How terrible! I don’t want someone to pursue me in college. Oh, I see. My daughter was influenced by the newspaper news. I told her that although such a thing would happen in life, it was only a special case and ordinary people would not do it. When you grow up, you can handle a lot of things by yourself. Besides, there is also the strong backing of mom! Now you just study hard and don’t think too much. When you reach the age of love, you will find that love life is very beautiful. At that time, mom will help you, support you and guide you. Time arrived. My chat with my daughter ended. I really hope that my daughter can often talk to me about her heart and her views and feelings about life like today. I think, on her way forward, it will not lose confidence and hope in life because of setbacks or being too lonely. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Eat porridge chat of assorted

Begin by saying North porridge conceptual differences. The porridge in the South has soup and rice, the soup is less and the porridge is thick, and the main material is rice. North said porridge, is rice non-soup, similar south of soft rice, main material for Xiaomi. As for most Northerners morning drink porridge, North habits called gruel or porridge, soup more than less, possible sunshine figure. Northerners have gruel, not necessarily poor, just a habit. Later, I lived in Guangdong and thought about it. The reason why northerners drink porridge is similar to Cantonese who drink soup. They should supplement water and relieve summer heat. North Farm eat porridge, General is sooner or later. The farmer cooks a staple food at noon, which is left at noon in the evening and the next morning, which is called hot meal. Unless for a reason, that evening or times early no staple, eat millet gruel against meal just. Millet porridge, almost every morning and evening, with pickles, feels good. For a few days or drink, intestines and stomach would be thinking about it. But if without soup millet gruel when staple continuous eat several Dayton, this a bit difficult, is now, we there in making fun of others frown also often say: don’t put on a Eat porridge head face. Porridge to with pickles, especially millet gruel. There is porridge without pickles, and it is tasteless to eat. For Northerners, pickles and millet gruel collocation, although thousands of habits, Middle although may also cluster had, but now both is seen to be natural for, not only appearance, but God lease, is you can not do without me, I can’t leave you. Pickles, material is mainly white radish. Past, the North winter no vegetables, live mainly by Pickles. Every autumn harvest, every family to pickled several big pot radish, or winter day is not lead. Sometimes urn years unclear end, radish have for years, called Old Pickle. Later days less disappointing, will pickled some cabbage, carrots, beans, cucumber like. There is another kind of pickles, which is to chop cabbage, radish cherry seed, mustard head and so on and pickle them together, which is called Rotten pickles or yellow vegetables. Northeast called sauerkraut, doing big body same. Pickled beginning, two kinds of above all to pressure on a few bluestone. huang cai general is late autumn eat with their past life difficult, radish Yingzi these to use, or throw away will feel pity, while in eat marinated radish before transition a. huang cai with salt less, put not long, long enough, a little sour over. My high school is in from village fifteen of Miles town, round-trip inconvenience, so live on campus. High-Canada tutorial year four years, and evening stamped and millet gruel cornmeal buns with pickles, sometimes buns may too late to do, into millet gruel; Summer no rain, all the boys is dormitory for unit, wai squatting into small circle playground dining, a bucket of a basin, pots buns or steamed bread, bottled millet gruel or stew, sooner or later, pickles and buns together bowl. Left hand buns, right hand hold spoon, a buns, a gruel, a pickles. Eat every day, of course bored, then often playground see throw buns and millet porridge. Are children of farmers, natural knows plate of hard not easy to,-sometimes there is really no way. Of course, there are in millet gruel, thinly disguised, such as some more red bean or mung bean, summer can quhuo. Have a special, is and red kidney beans, boil cooked fire of, color red, inside some sugar (formerly more saccharin), taste is very good, we there called Red gruel. Then there is old section Laba eat Laba porridge, is in millet gruel based on add rice, beans, grains of wheat, red dates and. This how to eat, can be counted as porridge of premium, just Ferial busy, rarely effort so appealing. Later in Guangzhou living, Lingnan zone weather hot flashes, breakfast favorite porridge, that porridge natural is South sense of porridge. Porridge of on the variety: without nothing in call porridge, such as porridge is in casserole now fort, called Open flame porridge; In porridge Riga material spend hours boil, said old fire porridge, plus pig bones, plus salted fish peanut, plus ginkgo Yuba; And a is in off-the-peg porridge temporarily, for feeding of, General also for pot, also useful a large iron spoon or small wok, varieties much: and preserved egg lean meat called pork porridge, and pig liver called liver porridge, what pig red porridge, with sliced fish, beef porridge, shrimp Soup, crab porridge and so on, varieties numerous. Get up early for work, roadside. Will in roadside snack shops, point Bowl old fire porridge, a plate of fried, after eating, God satisfaction foot, foot forceful. As South eat porridge when collocation, my favorite is fried and special soft sausage, two things is porridge supporting role, say may pull far, but still could not help but want to talk about. Fried there are two, a fried rice noodles, a pad. Generally speaking, the rice flour is thin and round, almost the same as the fans in appearance, and it is also dried. Before frying, soak it in water first. There are fried, fried when pot with Riga less water, poor taste. There is a kind of Guilin Rice flour, which is thicker and is made now. It can be fried or soup with a lot of materials. It is well-known and spread from Guilin. I’m using the rice meant the former. Pho is freshly made, Guangdong much morning market are sold, wide. Fried rice noodles general with fine bean sprouts, radish, ham, eggs or vegetables fried. Pho most common beef, fried called Cow River. I have seen a report before that some restaurants in Guangzhou test the chef’s kung fu and usually cook two dishes. One is stir-fried rice noodles in Hong Kong of a film, remember a similar plot. In addition to porridge, fried rice noodles can be served with beer at night snack in summer, which is particularly smooth. Say again special soft sausage. Guangzhou sell breakfast of small shop front multi-have, this way of eating I in other southern provinces haven’t seen an establishment Guangzhou and around Pearl River Delta area unique. A square steamer, materials for aluminum and iron, in several lattice, similar drawer. Scoop the rice paste prepared in advance on the iron sheet similar to the drawer, shake well, steam it, take it out, and add materials according to the requirements of diners, including eggs, beef, pork liver, pork pork, shrimp and. Steam it again, go out of the way, roll it into a cylinder with a shovel, cut it into two sections, put it on the plate, add a little cooked oil and soy sauce, then you can eat it. The taste is smooth and the taste is light, which is absolutely good in Guangzhou breakfast though popular. Guangzhou is famous for morning tea. So-called morning tea, is in wine shop and have a slightly more formal breakfast. Tea, actually in Guangzhou rice wantonly will in before meals send, before and after a cup of tea, is Guangzhou diet habit. Food in addition to zhou fen, other local snacks Snacks, variety. Early morning tea purpose is not necessarily for Eat, family or friends several chat while eating, enhance feelings. Is alone, a pot of tea, a bowl of porridge, a fried, a smattering of other, a newspaper, slowly pastime a boring morning, life so, joy? After someone once see, Guangzhou people in tea, side sigh tea, side pull feet. Eat morning tea when Pull feet indeed some indecent, but also reflects eat morning tea when everyone is have a leisurely mood in. In Guangzhou, porridge there is a kind of eat, is in Chaoshan people open of Eat Shop. Hot Summer, a bowl of porridge, porridge is ordinary porridge, some also add sweet potato or taro, porridge is cold, especially suitable for Guangzhou summer eat. Eat when collocation dishes, have olive dish, hempleaf, mustard or lu shui dan, brine tofu. Eat simple economic, finished body and comfortable, not sweat, especially like me physique, like this they eat. Finally, from already, before graduation, in North life after graduating from college, to have been in Guangzhou a living. Half of life is in the north, and half is in the South. Thank my North raised me, also thank South gave after half life of the three meals a day. People live a life, sometimes taste Bird’s Nest shark’s fin abalone sea cucumber, that’s also understandable, but after all, you can’t eat it as a regular meal every day. yan chi bao ginseng generation, although occasional taste slightly, only fresh, not wanted. For daily porridge rice, of the three meals a day of the dependence of so, is can’t not often grateful. Each mindful of this, as net and into urban years, and I feel myself how much not fully ungrateful, although self-deception, heart still calm a little. Like (prose editor: Rain dancing alone) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

The Lovesickness dyed all over the body makes me worry for a lifetime

The Lovesickness dyed all over the body makes me worry for a lifetime

Looking at the fleeting time, the past events in the dusty bottom of my heart flew in my memory, and the pain hidden in my heart was only known by myself. I am used to walking in the words, borrowing a piece of plain paper to string up all my worries, and then piling up the words one after another in the plain and narrow. — Text: the encounter and separation of love have been achieved by meeting each other. The beauty of flowers on the other side, the bright and pale fleeting year, in the smile, locked a wandering heart for thousands of years. From then on, happiness is your happiness, annoyance is your annoyance, with the sad beauty of missing, dancing lightly in the dress, knowing that there is no future, but still dancing alone on the words, looking forward to rotating the most beautiful dance, become your deep concern! However, missing is always reluctant to leave in such a night, crossing the Tang style, passing through Song Yu, accompanied by green lights, repeatedly recalling the little things about you, telling the thoughts and concerns one after another! Happiness have cross gap, can not see the end, touch less than 1.1 drops real temperature. Fear, one day, no matter how cherish, can not pull back a happy distance, from then on is silence, the end of the world strangers no longer think of no longer ask each other, later, leave me alone in the world of mortals with vicissitudes! That day, that month, that year, this life. Memories are strung together, hiding behind the time and counting every day we have gone through. Shaohua is far away, wayward is no longer, and we are becoming more and more quiet and mature. When we are young, we will do it and cherish it. Spring and summer, autumn and winter, life is just like a grand performance. When the curtain ends, people will die. The desolate time will not take away all our memories. I believe I will accompany you through every ray of time when you need it. You smile, floating life is like a dream, outside the thousands of rivers and mountains, what we have passed together is called Forever. The hourglass of time deposits the past that cannot escape, and the hands of memory always pick up those bright sadness. The wings of youth cut through the painful memory; Yesterday’s tears stirred up the ripples in my heart. When the fleeting time has passed, when things are added with human rights, when feelings become exhaustion, when the world is full of black, when experiences are said to be destined, when life makes me regret. Entanglement is the endless reality that I can’t control and look. We are like two straight lines, but after crossing, we are getting further and further. I thought that my feelings for you had already been frustrated, but every time I touched it, my missing was like a thread, never interrupted. It has been several years since I sang with tears. Review Yuanwang, once proximity, now Tianya. I look back at the deep feeling of weak water. The time in my imagination is as warm as water, touching your earnest thoughts and drying every sentence in the sun. It looks like a long dream, falling down and falling down, falling down. If the water is gently calling, the distance will be lightly wrapped and lightly wrapped, and the mind will never be broken. In the favored eyes, there are three thousand years of lovesickness like water pouring down to the world of mortals at this time, the graceful and graceful, the agile, and the gentle, through the brightness of the Sun, the sparse chuckle stood at the tip of May with a little bit of rendering, surging and resounding, listening to the blush of a flower, collecting it in the face of the wind and frost, and then standing at the end of the world. It turns out that no matter how noisy a guest is, he will eventually become alone for the play. Looking back blankly, with thousands of emotions, I have become a stranger in the world of mortals. Standing in front of the grid window carved with fine flowers, he held a piece of gorgeous function words devoutly and tightly, without saying anything or hurting him, and stopped the spring grass growing. Such a kind of Spoony, however, always brings harm in return. Only the fireworks of the third world can get a love relationship. How much love do I need to pay in exchange for true love. Wish to yi xin ren, elderly not deviation. A clear song, singing continuously, strangers from the end of the world have not returned. A sleeve full of fragrance, can’t smell where flowers bloom and fall. After a glass of turbid wine, the smiling voice faded gradually. With a sense of separation and hatred, you will never feel sad about your past and present. People who are crazy about love must have a withered heart, and this heart is crisp. I am willing to write the words of wind, flowers, snow and moon, and never touch the painful love. A person, a heart, a lifetime waiting. A person, a city, a lifetime love dearly. Traveling alone, walking on strange roads, watching strange scenery and listening to strange songs, until one day, you meet someone, you love each other, and finally understand that all the search, there is a process. Once upon Tianya, now of your reach. Missing locks me. I will read it all my life, like flying flowers and smoke. My heart eyes are filled with a wisp of sorrow in my spare time. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Flower daughter

I vaguely remember that when my aunt and sister got married, at that time in the countryside, when the man’s boat came to pick her up, she wore sunglasses, red flowers on her chest and lowered her head, I couldn’t see whether she was sad or happy, but her uncle’s crying came from the room. I am curious, why do you cry for such a big wedding? I vaguely remembered that when my elder sister got married, she wore a red coat. When her brother-in-law’s car took her away, the bustling room suddenly became silent and her mother wiped her tears. I don’t understand. My sister went out happily! I once remembered that when my second sister got married, she wore a red dress, which was beautiful and moving. She was taken out of my house by her brother-in-law, and her aunt was comforting her mother. I don’t understand, my sister’s new home is very close to our home, it is only a few steps away! I clearly remember that when I got married, I wore a white wedding dress and my husband pulled me out of the house accompanied by the bridesmaid. The door behind me was gently put on, I don’t know, what else is closed inside the door?! When I came back to the door, firecrackers rang downstairs. I hurried up the stairs and heard a bunch of people saying, “Look, look, aren’t you back again?! It was my mother’s red eyes that jumped into my eyes. On the night of marriage, in our new house, I cried, crying heavily, crying out of breath. I didn’t know, I missed home! What I really want! That kind of heart-broken daughter left home, that kind of deep-rooted yearning for her parents. I didn’t know what the marriage of my daughter meant to her parents. I didn’t know that from then on, I was no longer the good girl around my parents, nor the ignorant little daughter around them! Later, I saw many weddings, all of which had this scene: my father handed her daughter’s hand to the bridegroom’s hand, and I could understand that kind of expression, father gave his favorite daughter to the most important man in her life, hoping that you love her, love her, care for her, and live together with her for the whole life. At this time, I always feel sorry for myself, tears like rain. The next year, I became a mother, a boy’s mother. I won’t feel sad about marrying my daughter any more, but I like a girl very much, a naughty and kind girl like me. When my son gets married, I will tell my son that when your father-in-law hands his daughter’s hands to you, you must love and spoil this girl like cherishing treasures, help each other, fulfill your promise and her whole life! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…