A trace of kindness left in my heart

On the morning of lunar December 27, I saw a vast expanse of white on the ground outside the window. It turned out to have snowed last night. This is the first snow in, which is less than that in previous years. Now it is the warming season in. After all, seeing the appearance of some snowflakes naturally gives birth to some joy! I saw off my second sister in the countryside at more than ten o’clock in the morning. The outdoor temperature was very low, the freezing wind was biting, and my hands and feet were cold. Walking on the white snow, the creaking and creaking made a crisp sound, the second elder sister was wearing a gray old short cotton-padded coat, and her thin figure was getting farther and farther. The streets were bustling and crowded. People rushed to buy all kinds of fresh goods, almost breaking the belly of plastic bags ——- the price of vegetables was much higher than in previous years, 12 yuan per jin of leek, and the local pepper was unwilling to lag behind, one point is not allowed, the newly emerging red hundred-dollar bills are only exchanged for plastic bags and green plants. A man put a few boxes of salute into the carriage —– it will be the New Year’s Eve of 2012 in three or four days, and suddenly I think of the little girl written in the text “The Little Match Girl” I learned when I was a child, is she living well now? Should we get married when we grow up? Is it still the same as then, will it freeze to death on New Year’s Eve? There is a man wandering on the street near my house. He has been eating and living on the street for several years. Every morning when he passes by, he always sleeps in the cold and damp corner of the cement wall, which is scary. When I passed by last night, my daughter-in-law saw it and said: This person is used to it! Thinking of this sentence makes me feel inexplicably angry. Can I get used to it? It suddenly occurred to me whether the text could be renamed “The big man who doesn’t sell matches” today. Just like Andersen, he wrote a fairy tale and published it in the Chinese textbook of middle school to let young people learn and learn, educated! So by the way, I thought that there was a Widowmaker in my hometown mountain village. The man was my playmate. In terms of generations, he should be a distant brother of the same age who was three months younger. Unfortunately, he died of kidney disease three years ago, leaving a daughter-in-law with mental derangement, a daughter and a pair of twin children. I don’t know how their family’s life is this year, and how are they preparing for New Year’s goods? Although there are sympathy and financial aid from the village committee, they are determined to be low-income households and enjoy the government’s annual living allowance, I think this is limited after all, and they cannot live as rich as others! Can I show some practical love to help, such as squeezing out some money and goods to show sympathy and love. Although it is just a drop in the bucket and has little effect, it can at least express that there is still a little sympathy and pity for others in my heart, so as not to be insensitive, rigid in soul and lose human feelings too early! After all, I am now receiving a civil servant’s salary to ensure that my whole family will not suffer from cold and discouraged. Caring and helping doesn’t have to be a matter of philanthropists and rich men. One caring can not solve many problems, at least it can reflect a person’s civilization and accomplishment. Why not do it? People who need financial aid are not limited to one or two families. For example, there are several families in our village who are still relatively poor and have poor living quality. It is obvious to all that they cannot show their sympathy and care one by one, it is necessary to do as much as you can! Squeeze 500 yuan out of his limited income, buy some things like sugar, melon seeds, biscuits, ham sausages, drinks, and bring a few bags of noodles, rice, a few pots of oil, go to their home sincerely and have a look at their living conditions, which may bring me some shock and touch, and generate some unimaginable inspiration and gains! From now on, even if you smoke less, eat less meat, drink less wine, go out for less, buy less fashionable clothes, save the money, do one or several things that can make you feel a little relieved every year during festivals! Of course, it should be no problem to discuss with your wife properly. If this thing can be done, I think I will get some comfort and comfort in my heart, and I will cherish my current shortcomings more, more ordinary life than others, and more cherish my own life, cherish the rest of your life and make some achievements in your limited abilities! The sky was already bright, the snowflakes were still flying all over the sky, the sky in the distance was vast, and the horns of the cars rang harshly. The female conductor of the coach invited guests to Lanzhou loudly, the number of pedestrians gradually increased, and a new day of life began! I hope this is not just a flash in my heart. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

After all, young, not suitable for love

Because of Yu binzi, I knew you. For the first time, I knew your name in other people’s mouth. They said your name was Chen Chen. I was in a panic, have you been destined with Chen Chen in this life? You ask me to talk to you. I always ask you if you are joking. Later, I didn’t know why I agreed. You want to send me home, in the car, someone I don’t know, your friend, told me how good you are. Let’s start like this. You send me downstairs to my house and kiss for the first time, when I got home, you added my button and we started chatting like this. I said I fell in love with you at first sight. You said I am big fool, you were a little fool, how about you call me late dear, you cover the night, ask me what time to go to bed, I said I don’t know, you said to accompany me to sleep, I told you fool I’m going to sleep, we said good night to each other. This was our first day. School was over on March 29th. You told me to go back to Luojiaping, call you, and then send me home. I didn’t expect that because of my grinding. You go first, let’s talk about deduction in the evening, I tell you that we don’t have a holiday this week, you said you still want to join me, I said as long as you want to come out, I asked for leave to accompany you. You were in your hometown on April 2nd. You broke up with me. I made friends with you. For the first time, I felt unwilling to give up. On April 3rd, you told me that you were in Yan’an. I was so surprised that you came back in just a few days. Unfortunately, we are no longer lovers. You said you only regarded me as your sister, in the early morning of April 6th, I came out from home. It was the first time I saw you when you came back to Yan’an this time. The reason was unexpectedly that you hung up the buckle for me and fought with others, it was my first time to run out at midnight, April 8th. You lived in binzi’s house, and we chatted in the yard. Finally, I asked you, could you make up? It was our second reconciliation. On April 9th, I washed clothes for the first time, it was yours, but it was okay. I washed it. On April 9th, we were still chatting on the button. I told you that I hate others cheating me. If one day you don’t want it, please be honest, I will not bother you. On April 10th, we will go to my brother’s house, From this day on, we have been together all the time. I said I would take care of you these days, but you have been taking care of me. Take me home and take me back, on the street, he took my hand and hugged me to sleep together. He got up in the morning and helped me wash my face. I felt you were really good. I didn’t want to lose you. On April 16th, I had a fever, you accompany me to hang a needle on April 19th, you don’t know what’s wrong, you treat me hard, the first time we quarreled, you still told me to break up, because you hate stupid women, on April 22th, I celebrated my birthday and got drunk. I couldn’t forget you and vent my feelings. When you came, did you think I was ashamed? You beat Xiaoya because you couldn’t bear it, in fact, I know in my heart, but I have been deceiving myself and others, looking forward to saving you one day, because I don’t believe that you can be cruel to me. On April 23th, we ended completely, I chose to be a friend. Until now, on April 28th, you talked with xxx. I tried hard to destroy him and become a bad woman, because I didn’t want you to belong to others. On April 30th, you broke up, I am so happy, but I promise to give you a school Flower as compensation. On May 1st, I went out to play and came back at night. You know I drank and let me go to bed, I am going crazy, I tell you that I am not drunk, you care about me, but just out of the care of friends, that’s it… this is all our memories, I am not a stupid woman, I just disdain to play tricks in front of you. Others say that I am persistent and silly, because they don’t understand why I am persistent. I didn’t expect that we have known each other for such a long time, I don’t know what I think, whether I am used to your care and your kindness to me. I have no standpoint, no thoughts and no brains, they all say that I have changed for you. From now on, I want to live a good life for myself. After all, I am young and not suitable for expressing love. I don’t need to waste my time, because we should have a good grasp of the present, without efforts, there will be no better gains, Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Dandelion time

There are more than ten steps away from the east of the unit building, which is a piece of open space with an area of about 20 mu. It was originally said to be the building of the building and the construction of sports venues, but it has not started yet. I don’t know whether it was planted by people or by myself. There are large tracts of reeds on the open ground. Every spring, Reed sprouts and grows up gradually, becoming a green sea. When the warm spring breeze blows people’s cheeks again, making people feel the beauty of spring, the Reeds also turn green in a mighty way. There was originally a circle of iron fences in this land, and almost no one went inside at ordinary times. But these days, I found that the number of people inside gradually increased, and most of them were old women with children, and occasionally there were young maids squatting there as if looking for something. I was confused and asked my neighbor. She said that there were many bitter bitter vegetables in the reed field, and they all liked to eat them. Living in the city for a long time, I have forgotten bitter herbs. Seeing more and more people poaching for vegetables, I couldn’t help recalling the time when I was digging potherb in my childhood. In my memory, Grandma loves wild vegetables. She always said that the wild vegetables were fragrant and also raised people. She always told me about my father’s reading when he was young. At that time, my family was poor and had no money to study. In order to pay the tuition for my father, grandma and aunt often got up very early and went to the field to dig potherb, dug a bag full of potherb, and then sold the money for my father to go to school. Later, my father often mentioned this to me, saying that it was hard at that time! Every household is like this. If the grain harvest is not good, they are short of food and drink. Every time I went to my aunt’s home after school, the hungry father would pick up her aunt’s nest basket, and the aunt who always loved her father would always leave some potherb dumplings in the basket. My father said that in that poor era, potherb supported a large number of people. When I was very young, I followed my grandma to dig potherb in the field, and the most dug one was bitter potherb. This kind of dish has strong vitality and has its footprints beside the ditch and river in the field. My grandmother taught me to identify carefully, but I often made jokes. Take a weed called horse urine by villagers as bitter bitter herbs. Grandma digged so fast that we would dig a big basket before noon. After returning home, Grandma washed it, removed the roots, and steamed it or ate it in cold mix. Although bitter bitter bitter vegetables are bitter, they are fragrant with bitter taste, especially mixed with garlic paste and vinegar Sesame oil, which is absolutely delicious. My beautiful childhood was gradually moving away from my grandmother’s fragrance of cold and bitter bitter vegetables. I miss those bitter times very much. My grandma is getting older, and I also go to school, work and get married. I have never eaten bitter dishes any more. Yesterday, my daughter called me downstairs and asked me to throw a convenient bag for her. She wanted to dig bitter bitter herbs with Kiki. Kiki was her playmate. I didn’t know why they both thought of sarcastic bitter herbs, so I agreed to her. Since they want to dig, they must think it is a happy thing. Half an hour later, my daughter came back and gave me her masterpiece, which was a handful of tender bitter herbs. I washed it and dipped it in sauce. The children all said it was delicious. The delicious bitter bitter herbs evoke many of my childhood memories. My heart also began to feel restless. I took my two children, climbed over the fence, jumped into the reed field, and dug a handful of bitter herbs to look for my long-gone childhood. Like (prose editor: Shu Kuang) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Fate, how to play the movement

Originally, I was very happy. But later, it changed. Become very familiar. I lost my character. And the only reason that can prove that I live in this world is nothing more than the driving shell like a walking corpse. It has nothing else. If there is, it may be the night accompanying me day and night. — Many people say that my words are very sad, and I am sad for that kind of sadness, which is the teasing of my heart and the waves aroused when they contradict each other. Actually, I know. Know the endless sorrow brought by this feeling to people. Just like an infatuated girl, she accepted the rejection of the perfect, handsome and handsome prince charming in her eyes without any choice. But no matter how much this man hurt her, her eternal love for him would never change. Even though sometimes she would think of giving up because of sadness and sadness, but after the sadness and entanglement, I believe that she would choose to love him as always. Until one day, I understand. Many people think I am very mature. I think that kind of maturity should come from the calmness and calmness of appearance. That kind of peace didn’t come from me. It is not tempered in life. Just like the brief calm after the storm. It is powerless and tired. There is no spiritual morale. Many times, I want to forget those unhappy. Forget those scarred pains. However, every time when all these bad things are about to be locked in the old box, a new blow will strike me ruthlessly again. Moreover, every time, it is more violent and painful. Perhaps, you will say that I am are escaping from life, I am timid and cowardly people. However, you should know that endurance is different for everyone. I am not a great man, I am not a celebrity, and I don’t have such a strong load to bear the ruthless blows again and again. I think, even if they are strong and capable, they will step forward one day. What’s more, I am just a child. Every time, I pray devoutly after finishing my work, because in my life, I need to be lucky occasionally. After all, I also spent a lot of energy like others. However, it is always impossible to meet people’s wishes. Imagine that on a perfect road, it will be destroyed by reality. After accepting the frustration every time, I could only walk out of the shadow very quickly. I continued to crawl in the truth that I was more frustrated and braver. Sometimes, I really want to completely close myself. I really want to completely escape from the fluctuation between cheer and failure. However, when the night comes, I still can’t restrain those pains. Against the backdrop of the night, it will only make the pain and hardship in my heart more transparent. And that kind of vivid performance. Only in this way can I have no thoughts and soul, and become a little peaceful. Fate. How should I go? Fate? How can you play the movement of life for me? Fate. I begged you in a low voice to leave me a blue sky and let me find the sunshine and happiness that once belonged to me. Fate, I beg you. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Childhood no longer

The moon bends and the stars shine, illuminating the children’s dreams; Dandelion, a small paper boat, is always floating in the children’s childhood,,,,,, the song “Children are the world” written by Xie Xiaodong was once my favorite song when I was young. Today, I want to search it for my son on a whim, but I only find a vague audio. Although the sound quality is not good, but hearing this, I couldn’t help feeling a lot, tears streaming down my face. Things are nothing but everything. Although my childhood left me, it sparkled in my memory like the river reflected by the sunset; Like the gentle breeze and crumpled spring water, it stirred up a slight wave in my mind. When I was young, I liked to catch chafers for fun. In my memory, there was only one tree with the most chafers in our village. I got up early every day just to catch chafers under that tree first, every time, I used a washing powder pocket to do a lot of things, and showed off my head proudly enough to give the turtle to my dejected friends. Everyone tied its feet with a thread and let it fly in their hands, some children also tied the thread to the stick to make the chafer fly tired and stop. After playing enough, I put the chafer away and caught it the next day. Sometimes I get up late, and when I get up first by other children, I will cry to my brother willfully, and then my brother will try every means to use some peels to induce the chafers to throw themselves into the net. At dusk in summer night, I would also catch fireflies in the grass and crops with my friends with the washed ink bottle (the bottle cap is drilled through a small hole). Sometimes I would use pea pods instead of the bottle, the little fireflies are like night elves, attracting my attention. Most of the time, I will come back with cheers and full load, and occasionally I will come back with my head drooped. I like to put the bottle beside the pillow, and the flickering light of fireflies comes out from the glass bottle, which is really beautiful! Looking at me, I fell into a sweet dream. Fireflies lit up my childhood and marked a poetic stroke in my childhood trajectory. Everyone likes to pick gardenia on the mountain with their parents who cut firewood. I am no exception. Sometimes, in order to make it worthwhile, my partners will not let go even the small flowers and bones. Only the white flower buds are inserted in the bottle will bloom, And those flowers and bones will bloom only when they are inserted in paddy fields. In order not to let other friends find their own Gardenia, we will hide them very secretly. When the flowers bloom, the branches often take root, everyone likes to take gardenia to school and send it to teachers to send it to classmates, experiencing what is a handful of gardenia to others, with lingering fragrance in hands. There are also tragedies, that is, the flowers that I worked so hard to serve were stolen by others, which really hurt my chest! Gardenia is the flower of the countryside. Its characteristic of choosing the environment and taking root wherever it falls is very similar to that of our rural children. Therefore, the fragrance of gardenia often floats in my deep old dream. I like to go to the market most, so that I can go to the market with my parents, so as to pick up cigarette cases in the garbage dump. At that time, our cigarette cases all decided the order of fans at the price of cigarettes, so when he found the expensive cigarette case, he would be very happy. When he saw the bulging cigarette case in other people’s trouser pockets, he would be envious to death, and he would know that he went to the market to turn over the rubbish again. When we were young, we didn’t have money to buy toys, but we would look for happiness by ourselves. We played the game of grasping seeds with apricot kernels and peach kernels, turned flowers with wool, and played glass beads with pursed buttocks, he can bend over and roll iron rings, jump into houses with small wood, pile castles with corn cores, make his own slingshot water gun and bamboo gun with eucalyptus seeds as bullets, and use Mulberry poles as bent bows and mulberry bark to draw top, Use Qinggang rice to insert a bamboo stick for rotation, and use mud to shoot guns. Whoever plays loudly in the competition, who makes a big hole, blows water with thin tiles, and uses millet grass to pad on the slope to play the shuttle board,,,,,,, way to school we wheat whistle sound, school on the road we bamboo flute melodious, we let ordinary life anger released Happy Heart flower. At that time, adults seldom bought us anything to eat, but we didn’t lack food either: sweet and greasy March foam, purple and black mulberry, dark dirty foam, slightly sweet Turtledove foam, sour and sweet thorn foam, the delicious food gradually matures and stimulates our taste buds. The yellow orange-orange prickly pear on the cliff, the fragrant sweet potato in the graveyard and the crisp magnetic melon in the paddy field all attracted our eyes like hungry wolves. We will not let off anything that can be put into our mouths, such as silk grass root, acid grass, locust flower, Canna flower, sorghum stalk, corn stalk, gray bar, etc. In summer, there are also some peddlers who sell ice cakes in the countryside. The sound of ice cakes sounds like the sound of nature to us, ice cakes! Sorbet! Lightweight! Lightweight! This is our pet phrase, because only when the ice cream is almost sold out, the seller will sell it at a lower price. In winter when! When! When! The voice is our gospel, because hearing this, we will know that the seller of sesame sugar is coming. In the second half of the year, people who make foam tubes and popcorn will come, and the family will also make straw rice candy, and the trouser pockets will be filled with melon seeds, biscuits and so on. Singing carrot, honey is sweet, looking at us who are going to celebrate the new year, we really don’t know the feeling of sorrow in childhood! Oh, how can we forget the fire that brought us convenience in childhood? After harvesting crops in the afternoon, adults often burn the ash heap. A large group of children surround the ash heap, burning sweet potatoes, popping beans, frying peanuts and roasting corn cobs, smiling in the crackling explosion, how can I enjoy eating? Even Loach and ricefield eels are thrown into the fire to be cooked. Dipping some sauce is a wonderful taste ,,, although we are a group of delicious children, but they are also a group of sensible children. No matter what delicious food they find, even the greedy children will leave the biggest and the best to adults, because we know well the hard work of adults all the year round. The children of the peasant family had to help the adults to do what they could since they were young: they picked up eggs every day, drove chickens with bamboo shells, didn’t let chickens spoil the food in the dam, and put ducks, geese and cattle, cut pig grass, drag millet grass, Break the bread, cut wheat, cut Rice, pull soybeans to pick mung beans, stock up gourd bean leaves and yellow hemp leaves to dry, cut firewood and carry water to cook, and raise silkworms four times a year, the task of picking mulberry leaves basically falls on the older children, not to mention being diligent or not, which is the responsibility we should share. In addition to doing these, we also need to find ways to make money to help our family, Boys caught lobster, move crab, touch snail, will bamboo hack 2 ft about fishing rod fishing eel Loach, at night take flashlight frog, at that time, I followed my brother for a long time and helped him. Girls would pry Miscellaneous roots, dig herbs, pick up broken wheat ears, and luckily they would pick up a lot of shredded chicken fungus for a lot of money. In order to help parents share, partners do everything they need. At that time, you can earn money even if you study well. The teacher will encourage everyone before the final exam to learn how many branches you have taken and how much you will be rewarded. In order to redeem the prize, everyone will try their best to review. Xiang Shang annual spring sports, is everyone eyes xiangbobo, I remember sixth grade I took three individual first broken 2 records, when the more than 20 bonus was given to my mother seriously, her mother’s eyes were glistening with tears. Life at that time was very bitter, but I didn’t feel bitter when I was suffering. I felt happy even though I was suffering. Nostalgia for the sad love story that my mother sang to me in my childhood; Nostalgia for the time when I sat on my father’s shoulder and went to the village to watch movies in my childhood; when we three brothers and sisters were making trouble secretly while their parents were not at home, although my brothers and sisters often took me as the scapegoat after the incident, who let I am the youngest? If you break into trouble, you will not be punished by your parents; I am in nostalgia and sleep in the dustpan with my friends under the stars, listening to the night when the Masters talk about the mountains, those horrible ghost stories once scared me into nightmares but couldn’t stop. Those complicated and complicated ancient public cases once made me forget about it, nostalgia for the real “Three Kingdoms” that the most boastful old grandfather shook his head and talked about, fake “Fengshen”, “Journey to the West” and “Liaozhai”, which coaxed the dead people’s jingle ,,, childhood, it is worth everyone’s aftertaste! The most unforgettable thing is childhood! I often think, what does childhood mean to me? My childhood may be the unforgettable dark fragrance in my life with light clouds and winds? Childhood may be a boat wandering in my faint dream, right? Childhood may be a full moon resting in my open heart, right? My childhood is no longer coming, I wish that my childhood will always fall into dreams! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Parenting Tips

How can we educate our children well? I think it is a problem that every parent is very concerned about. Of course, I dare not to preach as an educator or psychologist. I just want to share some of my personal experiences and feelings with you, then we will discuss this ancient and profound issue with you. My son is seven years old and will be in the second grade next semester. Tonight, I called my son’s Chinese teacher and asked him about his test scores. To my surprise, the teacher actually said that his son had made obvious progress, this Chinese test took the second place, and he said that he did a good job in the reading comprehension questions later. The teacher also compared his son’s admiration with the old classmate who had always been in the class. The classmate did a good job in the basic knowledge questions in front of him, but the reading comprehension questions were not good. In fact, the classmate was rumored to be a prodigy before he went to school, and he was very talented in maths. But how could the teacher say that he was getting backwards this time? At the beginning, when my son was in the tenth place, he was the first. Later, every time I took the exam, I encouraged my son to advance two or three places. As expected, my son went from the tenth to the seventh to the fifth to the third, up to now, my son has been standing still for a long time, and he always asks me, Dad, why am I always in the third place? I saw his anxiety and desire for progress, so I encouraged him, don’t worry, as long as you do it seriously, you will definitely make progress!. This time the teacher said that his reading ability was very good. I remembered that when he was young, he pestered me and his mother to tell stories every night. His son liked listening to stories very much. He bought many story books at home, big and small, this little guy has a strong memory, and he has an impression on the content he has read. He can tell whether he has said it or not when he looks at the paper. We told him the truth in the story, let him tell his own thoughts, and he could also tell one or two or three. So far, I want to say that parents and friends, especially parents, should spare more time to accompany their children, pay more attention to their children’s hobbies and psychological changes, and encourage their children more, there must be some benefits. Sometimes when I went to the school gate to pick up my children from school, I met the parents at the school gate. When I saw my own children, I just criticized and complained, saying that the children were not easy to learn, and it was also common to abuse them. In fact, this is not to blame children, but to blame our parents for not cultivating their children’s personalities, hobbies and habits. Some people say that teachers’ children have good academic performance, not because their children are smarter than other children, but because their parents pay more attention to their children than them. I know very well that at the beginning of human life, the nature of nature is good, and kindness does not mean kindness, but the original essence of life that people have when they are born; In other words, when a child is born, it is just a piece of white paper, it depends on how the painter colors. The painters here are the parents and teachers of our children. The most important thing is the parents of our children, because parents are the first teachers of our children and also the teachers who accompany them all their lives! Parents’ words and deeds, living habits, interests and hobbies will influence children imperceptibly. Can a child in a family who is impatient and exported to be dirty become a poet? The answer is undoubted. Some time ago, my child found the writing brush in my drawer. I knew that it must be because he had heard the story of Ma Liang, and always hoped that an old man with white beard would appear in his dream, in this way, he can get a magic pen that he has been longing. So I was very happy to see this pen, and I was very obsessed with it for a period of time. He also started to write calligraphy. Although it was not good-looking, it was spiritually commendable. Every parent is devoting, and it is day and night, loyal, without hesitation, without asking for return. However, we love right, how to love? Some people think that giving children the best food and the most fun is love; What’s more, they dare not to give stars to the moon, but they don’t know that this will harm children. Friends have heard the story of why cats don’t catch mice. The owner gives them fat food and drink. Why does they catch mice? When the owner blames him, he won’t blame himself for spoiling the cat baby. The famous educator Mr. Yu Minhong, the boss of New Oriental, deeply understands the art of education. His daughter wants to buy a new computer, and he will never immediately promise that although he is not short of money, he will let his daughter exchange his grades, this is a good way of education. Some people say that it is reasonable to let children know the pain. Think carefully, this is the most difficult thing to do, love a person, how can that person not know? Unless he is a fool, he will never know. And I prefer to let your child know that he should feel your love for him, and let him learn how to be grateful and how to treat everything in the world with a grateful heart, but what I feel is not only spoiling. There is another saying that a steamed bun also needs to be cooked. Imagine that if there is a steamed bun in real life, probably no one will waste fire so much time. But for today’s families, there are very few children, one or two, and no more than three. They are like steamed buns one by one. Who is willing to give up? Some elders said: a filial son is born with a stick, or beating is a kiss or scolding is love. It seems that the child is disobedient, and everything will be fine with a dozen. In case of problems, parents should think more, be more patient and be less rude. At noon today, my child was going to play computer games at his grandmother’s house. I told him to go home for lunch break, because there was still class in the afternoon, and he said to go home to play computer games, otherwise he would not go back, I agreed to his terms. After I came back with him, I asked him to have a glass of milk first. After he drank, I asked him to have a lunch break, and he said that I didn’t say anything, and tears began to flow. I watched him shed tears, and felt very angry in my heart. I also thought of yelling at him, but I finally restrained my emotions, I felt that it was still because I compromised the child’s condition that caused harm to him. So I said, there was a child who drank milk and had urine in his stomach. Hearing this, he burst into laughter. I fell asleep after a while. Children are the hope of every family, but also the future of our motherland. Let’s let our educators join hands with the society and families for the future of our children and our motherland, please focus more on your child! Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

A green heart

Castle Peak often accompanied by green water, green water flows into the sea. The moment of time is like clouds and smoke, and we are busy with food and labor. Tea a cardiopulmonary, Red off bu mu cents. The time flies, what will be left in our life? “How” choose us, We whether it’s gold, or ordinary a grain of sand, it happy, because it find the own position. A grain of sand not because of its the at the vast desert and lonely, sand has its unique insights; A grain of sand not because of its No into gold to quit; Because it firmly believed, perseverance, perseverance, maybe after several exposure, it will become gold. We should always have a heart of green heart is the main, you see Mountain wood, wooden edge have creek, fish in fish, courtyard trees, tree one day, by such words deeply attract, I can’t help but feel excited. Finally, it is better to take actions to overcome the trouble of sleeping late. When you come to the tourist destination with high mountains and deep forests by car in the laughter and laughter all the way. You will see eyeful of Green, Green Mountain, green water, green trees, green grass, a breath of fresh air lunged, refreshing, relaxed and happy. You will find in the stream of fragrant grass, maybe this back mountain near the water is feng shui, into farmhouse can youziyouwei enjoy the chicken farm, in all kinds of fresh bamboo shoots after, the curiosity to explore the nature is derived immediately. Stream, that small groups of people, some in the photographs, some swimming, and more free and easy, also visible to free of small fish. Overlooking the Green Mountains, near the green water, under the blue sky and white clouds, the mood is just like the bird with wings flying freely between the heaven and the earth. At that moment, time seems to be stagnant, and troubles also disappear temporarily. And close relation with nature that makes people more can appreciate down of transparent. There is no tree in the Bodhi, and the mirror is not a stage. There is nothing in the past. Where can it cause dust. In the process of searching, we should put down our persistence and feel and appreciate the gifts in the process carefully. The breeze and bright moon are priceless, and there is love near the water and mountains. Everything in life is worth cherishing. This scene is also a page that can be collected and read at any time. A song comes from the mountain, which will surprise you of your ignorance. It has been so long since you missed this song. Fortunately, it brought us at this time. Therefore, I, you, have been infected and picked up the guitar of Mengchen for many years again. I hope that one day you can freely play and sing this song, the price of love. There is no longer that kind of heart tearing that makes people feel uncomfortable, but a light song will make people aftertaste for a long time. A kind of warmth that makes people feel Steadfast pervades among us, and this kind of feeling is hard to be replaced by other feelings. This trust really special beautiful, let a person feel life is meaningful, Castle is not, Green flows. If life is just a flower season that cannot be repeated, then the beating heart is a spring flower that never fades. Early spring er yue, warm, light yellow vaguely, new green quietly blossoms, beckons life exuberant, that’s rising sun-like youth; Yangchun san yue, apricot flowers, spring rain season, taogongliulu, soft wind help rain, flying natural Weili, that’s like fire middle-aged; Late spring si yue, Fangfei gradually do, mountains path, dense willow trees and brilliant the dusk of persistent, this is Sun Yat Sen Villa Twilight but the trees of the spirit is evergreen. No spring breeze, rare spring rain, of life green need is virtue of Bath, tough irrigation, beloved pregnant! The true color of the heart should be like this. Into, such as long Yuet according flower, deep pools ripples, regardless clockwise, sink or swim detachment, is yang bian ce ma, climbing pro far Post; Defeat, still water Stone, confluence sea, have poor and stronger, A proud man who never falls down to the ambition of the blue clouds, a man who is self-reliant and stubborn. Rong, the country is still the same, the elegant demeanour is still the same, just as the sea Wushan Mountain, familiar with the age and the moon, flashy, disdain the passing clouds; Shame, under Han Xin, the snow bottom is pale, like a feather fairy, brighter, refused unworthy de is high, Heart is sincere, love is pure, Heart will be forever is green. The colorful and attractive seasons come from the creation of nature; The spring scenery of all beings comes from creation. The poet said: there is no better language than action, no journey farther than foot sound, and the spring scenery of life. You need to decorate your life with a green heart, then you will have everything. Greedy people demand multi-, but vision shallow, narrow-minded, non-auspicious space, Nano not fu. A sincere and kind person, Kenford. Sincerity contains heart width, heart width can contain everything. feng shi humility, care, zhi en bao de, doing things harmonious decent, return from harmonious hearts come. Compassion Kona sons fu. People who know kindness and repay morality are kind and peaceful. Because he always considers the interests of the other party first when he acts, and wins the trust of the public in social interpersonal communication, and many people contact him. qiu ye have true friends help, praying for wealth of Accept, constant constantly, life smooth. Wisdom and conscience is people say of Buddha Root. Being Empty also, only karma is really! What kind of seed will produce what kind of fruit? Does the fruit grow well? It depends on self-sincere and sincere cultivation. The harmony between husband and wife should focus on self-cultivation. Those who have good characters will surely blossom and bear fruits, which naturally forms the archives records of acquired changes. All things of the edge is concentric, homogeneous, body. Mutual magnetic total communication, and margin. The mutual benefit of dune lies in making up for each other’s shortcomings. Repair balance mentality, Qing deposition of scale, the morning light gas run, ranking simple warm. Elegant environment, quiet space, fresh air and tranquil mood. Comfortable living environment, take good sensory, human mind plays harmonious role. Self-creating a good working and living environment can change the acquired fate of life. Mood balance available of is health, body health is life’s greatest gospel. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

The best happiness is to stay together for a lifetime

He married her, had a family, inherited a lot of debts from his father, and won a twist quilt from his married brother, he also bought a haunted house with his work cents and became a husband. From then on, her whole life was related to him, and from then on, his whole life was accompanied by her! She was young and fond of cleanness, but she could not wash clothes. Therefore, no matter in winter or summer, he was washing clothes for her, even with her trousers dyed with menstrual blood. When a villager said that a man would be frustrated when washing clothes for a woman, he didn’t care about it. He only said that she could marry me because she was sick, and her parents were used to taking care of me at home, I can’t be wronged either. He was a poor man, and of course he couldn’t take care of her very well. However, he treated her as well as possible, and he held her tightly when he had any delicious food. He told their children that your mother was sick and you should learn to take care of her and don’t argue with her. Therefore, the order of eating at home was like this. First she, then the child, and finally it was his turn to eat. She didn’t have to eat leftovers, and the children didn’t want to eat. He gave them the newly steamed rice and ate the rest of yesterday day by day, from time to time, it came out from the village that there was one more mistress in the family, and the daughter of the family found another family to live with, but she didn’t see any changes in their family. She still smashed things and things out of her mind, he was still walking around with a pair of trousers dyed with menstrual blood, and he was still washing, cooking and cooking. My daughter grew up slowly and looked pretty. Sometimes he smoked a cigarette and said to others smilingly that I could not be a father if it wasn’t for others, although they were a little ill, but it still left me a blood vessel. His neighbor satirized him, “Isn’t that a child for others to raise? He said, that is also my last name. As she was getting older and older, when it came to menopause as others said, the overwhelming symptoms such as upset, impatient and always losing temper in TV advertisements became more intense in her. Therefore, he began to be covered with wounds when he was just a little young, which was smashed by pots and pans when she lost her temper. She stayed with him for years, as fierce as the red wolf in the TV. When his younger brother came home, he said to him, “Leave, anyway, my daughter has grown up, what should she do? Send it back to my mother’s family, and forget it anyway. He kept silent and said after a while that he couldn’t be blind to his conscience. She is so big, it is not a crime to send it to anyone. The younger brother also said, then send them to the hospital, where to send them, not afraid that they will not stay. He said, the place was dark, not his own relatives, who would treat her well. At that time, even if she beat and scolded again, she would suffer more. The younger brother said, then you don’t want to have a few days to rest? He smoked a cigarette and said, “that’s it. When the quiet day came, she also left. When she was young, the old said that he had a good heart, so she would marry him. Later, old people said that he was too stupid to get the pain from a woman in his life. Later, the old said that they had a daughter who was a college student. When his daughter reached the age of marriage, he said to her, “You can’t choose to be my daughter in your whole life. Because of your relationship with your mother, you will certainly suffer twists and turns in your marriage. However, you have to remember that we don’t care about other people’s wealth and family, but about their characters and characters. Only people with good characters and characters can bring you happiness. The daughter smiled and smiled again, just like the woman in the book of poetry, leaning quietly on the shabby kang table and saying, “My mother is happy, so am I, dad! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Be nice to yourself, don’t be too tired

According to the report of the evening news, a 59-year-old migrant worker went to the construction site to work for more than 10 hours a day without rest after working for half a month. As a result, he died of sudden illness. I don’t know why this person is so desperate to make money. Maybe he wants his family to live a better life, but I think, his family would rather live a less rich life than lose him. Death cannot be a joke. There is only one life, and money can never be earned. But our lives are limited. Therefore, be nice to yourself. Don’t be too tired. People nowadays all value their seats too much. They always think about tickets and toss down the house. They can’t put on airs, can’t tear their faces, and care for their children. So, all kinds of trifles put myself out of breath. Facing the colorful world of red wine, intrigue and intrigue, I was trapped in the world of drunken Gold, flies and flies, surging material desire and agitation, after all, I made myself too tired. Be nice to yourself. No one knows what you will face tomorrow. Maybe it is success, failure, rebirth, death and the world is changeable, you may not be able to use the things you have worked so hard for your whole life. Isn’t it good to live an ordinary life? I have struggled, enjoyed, cried, laughed, succeeded and failed. With such a colorful life, there is no regret even if I face death tomorrow. I can’t make everyone like it, whether others appreciate it or criticize it, as long as I firmly walk my own way, it is enough. In fact, everyone has his own charm and enjoys the existing time well. I always hope that I can have a pure heart and understand human feelings and trivial matters calmly. It is simple and plain, just like duckweed in water, which is a different state of mind; The sight is pure, the years are white and the heart is as transparent as water. Use your spare time to enrich your own connotation. You don’t have to be proficient in all aspects of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. You just need to let yourself know more about something. Don’t be Madame Curry in a corner and learn to see something through the surface, if you experience more, you will understand more. If you understand, you don’t have to say more. Take your own path and let others talk about it. You don’t have to care too much about others’ opinions on yourself. As long as you have a clear conscience, there is no need to make yourself tired for some irrelevant people, life is really short. Be nice to yourself. Don’t be too tired. There are too many things in this world that we can’t control. Therefore, when there is a chance, we should eat and drink, it should be fun, struggle and enjoyment should be matched reasonably. After all, one’s life is not long. Be nice to yourself. One’s life is actually not long. Never leave any regrets for yourself. Like (prose editor: Rain dancing alone) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

A cup of tea for my bosom friend

ban bi shan room stay Moon, a qing ming paid bosom friend. A cup of biluochun was presented on several cases near the window, and there seemed to be no wisps of fragrance. Besides the tea fragrance, your strong tenderness was refreshing. In the mess of thoughts, your figure stands in a corner of your heart, which is as if it is looming and blossoming as a stranger. The Willows depend on each other, and the floating catkins are like smoke and fog. Everything comes too fast and goes too fast. In A, everything seems like yesterday, still clearly visible. Love is like a feather, dreams follow the wind, loneliness is decorated with Luan mirror, loneliness is hidden in the pillow, red candle tears fall into sorrow, who solves the pain and sorrow? Chewing the past, sweet and bitter, like the taste of tea, long aftertaste! October of meeting, October of knowing each other, October of staying together! The noise of harvest concealed the desolation of winter. You came here with songs, which made you fly all over the sky, and weaved a curtain of Crystal dreams in the blooming season of Dan Ye. Looking at each other, through thousands of years, reading the eagerness of the eyes between the eyebrows, the Heart Lake ripples. How can the breeze care, but there is no way to wrinkle the pool of spring water? Holding hands and asking the sky, accompanying the world, I am as dependent as the soul of a wild goose. Walking hand in hand, the morning glow is like a brocade, the evening mist is like a smoke, the dark night has no time, the Four Seasons change, leaving a few lines of footprints in the desolate or prosperous place, even if the day is long and the dream is short, the confident, pure and dust-free eyes will eventually melt the bitterness of the cold and cold flute, continue to break the strings without words, and flick with ten fingers in a graceful way to show you the lingering of “high mountains and flowing waters. You said I am a delicate woman like ancient tea, fragrant but not vulgar, charming and warm but elegant and pure. Wind and rain, wading into the water, waiting for you in the depth of the sunset, wearing a Sunglow, shining your sky. However, I am just a butterfly dancing in your dream, dotted under the screen window of Qian, singing in The Red Tent, like a clove quietly opening in your journey. Who can understand the spring breeze when flowers bloom and fall? If you want to complain with the sky and the moon of Qing Dynasty, the soul dream will be buried! Butterfly can’t fly over the sea, and the impulse of flapping wings can bear the pain of broken wings! In your sky, I am just a natural and elegant cloud. I can only stop for you for a while, break your dream for you, drink for you into your heart, and shed tears for you! Your sky, my attachment! The wind passes without trace, the water passes without shadow, I only wish to be the tree that grows on the road you must pass, hoping that you can hear the sound of flowers when you ride a horse. When I didn’t get married, I finally understood the absolute determination of helplessness and grief, with tears hanging down in my eyes! Make a cup of tea for you, and the attachment of making tea with hot enthusiasm will warm your heart of Experiencing vicissitudes. Maybe one day I will go back to the mountain forest with you, accompany you at dusk, and die in Makino. Learn Tao Yuanming from planting beans under Nanshan Mountain and picking chrysanthemum under bamboo fence. Lotus man hoe the crescent moon, holding a handful of Xiaolu, rippling a stream of laughter and singing in the murmuring water, intoxicated with the end of the sunset and the song of returning birds. Maybe in fact, there is not much possibility. The Buddha said: five hundred years ago, you gave me a glance back. This life should be my glance back to you, moistening your desire with tears! Beautiful legends will never grow old, but will we create our own myths? I clearly know that I am not a return person, but I am a passer-by, but I still use the most true lies to fabricate the feast like fireworks! Evil! I want to know with you, and I will live forever. The mountain has no Mausoleum, the river is exhausted, the winter thunder is shocked, the summer rain and snow are combined with the heaven and the Earth, so I dare to be with the King! I stick to the sonorous oath, look at the two flying swallows on the beam, plant my heart in the deep of your world of mortals in your incessant call, frown deeply, dim red makeup, engraved by wind and frost, tempered by years, even though I used to be a spring of tears in the past, I laughed at myself because of the misty rain! No complaints, no regrets, I hesitate to walk alone when the purple Moo flowers bloom. With your Qingyin as my companion, I enjoy the lonely love! Today, I will make a cup of tea for you. In The Teana of guqin, I miss you the surprise when you sip, the pleasure when you enjoy it, the tenderness of stretching your eyebrows, and the free and easy of writing at the desk! Today, I will make a cup of tea for you, and the gap of warm time will accompany you in my missing Like (prose editor: prose online) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…